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Do you find even with toys it takes a long time getting off if so any suggestions to speed it up?
I have this problem -a lot-. It drives me crazy when I try to get off, and nothing happens but mild tingles. I would suggest trying some stimulants for your clit or vaginally. I tried this warming, tingling gel once, and it did help me quite a bit. I don't remember then name of the stuff, but I'm sure you can find something on EF.
If you haven't tried new fantasies, that can really help too, I find, personally. Sometimes you just get stuck in a rut. Some women are just very hard to please, and all you really need to do is try and find something that works for you.