All right, just like it says on the tin. have quite a few toys at this point, and despite trying alone, with a partner, etc., it just hasn't happened for me yet.
DO NOT OFFER ME ADVICE. I HAVE HEARD IT ALL BEFORE. seriously, i'm sick of "just relax!" YOU JUST RELAX.
so, which is your favorite and why?
i'd love an option for adjustability, but the hitachi is just.... legendary.