What are some good vibes to try for someone that doesn't have much experience with toys? I have a bullet that I bought at a Pure Romance party and my fiance ordered a vibrating c-ring, when we got it, it was WAY bigger than I expected but we use it and I like it. I'm just not sure how big is too big for a beginner and I don't feel comfortable discussing it with friends. I don't want to order something that is going to be too uncomfortable. I am looking for something reasonably priced, not loud and not intimidating.