Handle, yay or nay?

The handle is very well designed for solo use or a partner. Easy to grip even with slippery hands. As for the feeling. I didn't enjoy aggressive thrusting. BUT when she was sucking my cock and gently "nudging" it...it was mind blowing. The different programs combined with the different pressures was fantastic. So in our experience the handle is perfect and will let you give, or receive, precise stimulation and manipulation.