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This one seems like my guy would really like it, hence the "sword" handle look, but he always tells me he wont use toys. any first timers out there I could relay stories with, maybe to pursuede him to try??
Tell him that you heard about using it on him and it made you hot. Maybe he will try it for you. Once he tries it, he can decide for himself whether he wants to do it himself or not.
I would also ask hum why he is so against toys. Maybe he just doesnt feel comfortable, or maybe he doesnt want to be "the kind of guy that owns sex toys". That was kind of what it was like with my ex, and on another side he didnt want it to go from masturbators to pegging or something. He was more of a "me tarzan you jane, I fuck you get fucked" guy. After I made it sound like the hottest thing in the world, he was ready to give it a whirl. As long as it was just the four play.
People always come to their own conclusions, if you really want him to try it once, make a deal to do something special that he wants to try, or make it sound sensual and fun for both of you.