Help!!

Maybe a dilator kit?

I personally really like my Harmonia. It's silky silicone, and while it has a larger tip the neck is thin and comfortable. It's good if you want thrusting, but it has some nice patterns if you want to get used to the feel, as well. It's also nice for clitoral stimulation!

When I was "getting back into the game" after not being intimate for a few years, I bought a simple but quality vibrator. For the first few times that I used it I simply lubed it up and inserted it, letting my vagina get used to it, leaving it in for a varied period of time. Once I was able to do that without feeling extremely stretched, I began to use it as normal, first without the vibrations and rotations, and then adding them slowly. What I would suggest is to ask your husband what his girth is, if you do not already know it, and find a dildo or a vibrator that is similar or slightly smaller and use that to ready yourself for his homecoming.