help needed for less painful masurbation!

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help needed for less painful masurbation!

kelseyy kelseyy
i have owned 2 make-shift "vibrators" and neither of the two have really done IT for me (both were only used for clitoral stimulation). i am a virgin and i have only ever enjoyed masturbation through clitoral stimulation because when i try to use fingers or small objects, it is painful and not pleasurable to me. i need advice/suggestions for a good quality, preferably small, vibrator with adjustable speeds that could satisfy my need for clitoral stimulation AND could also help me step my way up to penetration. (waterproof would be even better, but its not necessary ) im a total newbie to sex toys and have no idea what would be good for me.
02/06/2011
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potstickers potstickers
Well, you could try going to the vibrators section and setting the advanced search to smaller size products. I'd suggest something versatile since you're just starting out and want to experiment. You might be more likely to try penetration if you're already in the middle of using the toy for clitoral stimulation.
02/06/2011
kelseyy kelseyy
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
Well, you could try going to the vibrators section and setting the advanced search to smaller size products. I'd suggest something versatile since you're just starting out and want to experiment. You might be more likely to try penetration if ...
thanks for the suggestion! im still a bit lost but i suppose the best way would be to just try some things out and see how it goes
02/06/2011
Mistress M. Mistress M.
My favorite clitoral vibrator is the iVibe. It's a fantastic vibrator and really pleasurable to use. This is made by Doc Johnson, and its a great little toy to have around the house.

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As for a insertable, waterproof vibrator, I suggest the Black Magic Vibrator from Doc Johnson. Its not very expensive, so if you don't like it you won't be out of a considerable amount of money.

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If your having a problem with it being painful, try adding a lube to it too!
02/06/2011
spiceboy spiceboy
I think an extended bullet vibe may be a nice starting point... the Faith discreet massager works as a clit vibe, but also has an insertable length of 3". It could be a fun teaser that'll prep you for other toys and deeper penetration later on. It's full circumference is only 1" around, so it's a good starting place for first time insertion, similar to the vegetables and big markers that are suggested for penetration newbies. Plus the velvety texture of this toy is a real treat. (I haven't used this vibe but I have other toys from Evolve that have the same finish. It's amazing!)
02/10/2011
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