How Big is TOO Big

Pandahb Pandahb
Diamante review
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I recently did a review for a toy that had a very big girth. And on the box actually says "external use only" So throughout my review I say that. But after speaking to Carrie Ann, there are actually quiet a few who can handle and enjoy this girth. So my question is, can you handle the toys with big girths and what do you think of them?
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Originally posted by Pandahb
I recently did a review for a toy that had a very big girth. And on the box actually says "external use only" So throughout my review I say that. But after speaking to Carrie Ann, there are actually quiet a few who can handle and enjoy this ... More
I only have 1 toy with a larger girth, and because it is made out of Vixskin I can handle it just fine. In fact, it is my favorite silicone toy as of now. However, there are people who can't handle this girth. It is about 1 7/8 in diameter with a 6 inch circumference. I do not think that I could handle this size if the material was firmer, but this toy has gotten me curious about trying more larger toys
10/31/2010
Shellz31 Shellz31
I dont think that one is all that huge. The biggest I have used was close to 8" in circumference. But have to be quite worked up! I LOVE the big toys!!!!
11/01/2010
Coralbell Coralbell
The biggest toy I can fit is 5 1/2" circumference but it's a bit uncomfortable. A lot of people probably don't consider that large but up til a few months ago I'd never had anything bigger than 2 fingers in my vagina so it seems really big to me. The biggest one I own is the Jollet (5 3/4") but I haven't worked up to it yet.
11/01/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Pandahb
I recently did a review for a toy that had a very big girth. And on the box actually says "external use only" So throughout my review I say that. But after speaking to Carrie Ann, there are actually quiet a few who can handle and enjoy this ... More
Everybody is different. I certainly have toys with girth this large. My Man has girth this size. If a reviewer can't accommodate a toy, it isn't an indictment on her or him, but do expect that many people do enjoy large toys with wide girth.

My assumption is the "for external use only" is a "Cover Your Ass" insurance thing, like stickers on ladders, not to use the top rung (despite the fact that experienced users do all the time) and the Wahl, which says, "Not for use on genitalia." Yet. that is the main reason the Wahl is purchased.

Those "warnings" are often for insurance purposes, you have to use common sense. Some inflatable toys for anal use say "Not for vaginal use." And they are right, air in the vagina is dangerous, it could cause an air embolism. Some toys are not for anal use, and say so, because they don't have a base to protect your body from sucking it in, anally.

My guess is this toy says that due to insurance, like SO many sex toys say "Novelty use only." It's to cover the asses of the people who make them from people who do things with the toys that might hurt that individual person and the companies don't want to be held responsible.

But, yet, I have toys this large, have NO trouble accommodating them. I ENJOY large toys used vaginally. But, that's just me. I understand that not everyone likes what I like, but I don't tell people, say, that "no one" could take, say, an anal plug that I might find too large for me. In that type of toy, I tend to like them smaller. I CAN take them, but chose not to.

As long as the toy is safe for certain uses, I don't make assumptions about what other people can handle.

Don't feel pressured to "take" a toy that is too large for you, but understand that vaginal capacity to stretch varies, and often varies due to experience. NEVER use a toy to the pain point, (I mean, unless it's a BDSM toy) and don't feel you have to hurt yourself. But, still understand that MANY people can and do enjoy and use toys that may not be to your liking.

That's all.
11/01/2010
Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
A true size king or queen probably wouldn't have much trouble taking this toy internally. We have Vixen Creation's Johnny which is about the same diameter and my partner is able to take it vaginally relatively easily. She enjoys the full feeling that Johnny provides. I also have a 2" diameter butt plug and although it takes some effort and a little discomfort during the stretching, I can get that inside my ass. Some people really enjoy the stretching and full feeling brought on by toys of larger diameter.
11/01/2010
Batty Harlot Batty Harlot
For me, anything over 1 1/2 in diameter is too big. I graduate more towards the smaller toys. I just can't handle the bigger ones. :/
11/01/2010
Kim! Kim!
My largest toy has a 6" circumference and a 2" diameter. I can't just get it out and shove it up there but it isn't uncomfortable once I'm ready.
The vagina is quite elastic and with proper preparation and lubrication it can accomodate a lot. Babies come out of those things. (Not that I believe most people can get them quite to that point without trying to deliver a baby but you get my point.)
11/01/2010
Destri Destri
I really don't like thick toys. I can handle up to about 3" around, but that is about it... comfortably anyway. And the thick ones don't do a thing for me, either. I like them long and slim.
11/01/2010
Love Buzz Love Buzz
There's a dildo called the great American challenge by Doc Johnson, it weight 5 ponds and I think it's 9 or 10" around - that's my idea of too big.

The diamante suits me quite well, as its tapered shaft allows for a more gentle 'stretch' than some other big toys, also the soft and somewhat forgiving TPR make it a great toy for those who are interested in trying toys of size.

But each to their own. I'd even love to try the Belladonna's bitch fist - but think that also may be too big. I wish Eden stocked a streamlined more tapered hand as it's the exaggerated size of the clenched fist I doubt I'd be able to accommodate it!!
11/01/2010
Danielle915 Danielle915
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Originally posted by Love Buzz
There's a dildo called the great American challenge by Doc Johnson, it weight 5 ponds and I think it's 9 or 10" around - that's my idea of too big.

The diamante suits me quite well, as its tapered shaft allows for a more ... More
Yeah....thats definitely TOO big
11/01/2010
lamira lamira
I love big toys; I don't really like skinny toys. But, I think this toy is just too big.
11/01/2010
Pandahb Pandahb
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Everybody is different. I certainly have toys with girth this large. My Man has girth this size. If a reviewer can't accommodate a toy, it isn't an indictment on her or him, but do expect that many people do enjoy large toys with wide ... More
That makes sense. I suppose I just can't take toys with such a girth. I will consider editing my review to accommodate to people who enjoy the "full feeling"
11/02/2010
Pandahb Pandahb
Youtube Video of Great American Challenge
11/02/2010
Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by Pandahb
I recently did a review for a toy that had a very big girth. And on the box actually says "external use only" So throughout my review I say that. But after speaking to Carrie Ann, there are actually quiet a few who can handle and enjoy this ... More
I don't like big girths or big lengths. I prefer a more average sized toy. I like smaller sizes.
11/02/2010
Pandahb Pandahb
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Originally posted by Sera
I don't like big girths or big lengths. I prefer a more average sized toy. I like smaller sizes.
I think I do too! I really love traditional vibrators that are for beginners. In this sense I still think of myself as a beginner. Some toys are just ridiculous to me, and probably the people who like such toys think the ones I like are ridiculous.
11/02/2010
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
6 inch is ideal for me but I do have an 8" one that I can take in if im really aroused.
03/24/2011
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