I am a girl who absolutely loves double penetration, So I was wondering how many of you women enjoy it too?
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How many women prefer double penetration?
I would love to with my wife. We are still atarting out on our sex life exploration (after 7 years of marriage!) and she is a little timid about trying this with a dildo or my finger.
Obviously with my member name I am into the fantasy of threesomes. This will never happen in reality, but maybe in the future with a dildo we can get into this!
My wife is afraid of stretching the anal sphincter, because she says it can, unlike the vagina, stretch out for good and cause fecal incontinence later in life- is this true ya think?
Obviously with my member name I am into the fantasy of threesomes. This will never happen in reality, but maybe in the future with a dildo we can get into this!
My wife is afraid of stretching the anal sphincter, because she says it can, unlike the vagina, stretch out for good and cause fecal incontinence later in life- is this true ya think?
07/18/2010
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My girl LoVeS it but it's not a daily thing. It's a once in a blue moon thing. However, I am mindful of the fact that this goes along with the fantasy playing in her mind. Never done the real thing and probably never will so a dildo is often employed foe male #2.
Originally posted by
Samanti
I am a girl who absolutely loves double penetration, So I was wondering how many of you women enjoy it too?
07/18/2010
It won't stretch the anal sphincter any more than having bowel movements can. And nobody's anus is bigger because they have had bowel movements over time. The sphincter is made to stretch and then retain it's shape.
People who practice "extreme penetration" with things like two liter bottles and huge dildos etc may have anal prolapse, but normal anal sex, either with toy or penis or finger will not "stretch" and the anus permanently. You can learn to control the anus, so penetration is not only not painful, but pleasurable, but it doesn't "Stretch." The human body just isn't made this way.
Think about it. You have all different sizes of poops come out of you. Your anus stays or goes back to the same size after the bowel movement. That is what it is made for. You put large food into your mouth, does your mouth "stretch" and stay bigger if you like to bite big sandwiches? No. The anus and the vagina are actually as, if not more able to snap back to their original size and shape than the mouth, so she doesn't need to worry.
Take it slow, use a lot of lube, stop if she says to, try small things first (starter plugs or small finger) and many women and men do find they enjoy anal penetration a LOT.
Add vaginal penetration to a woman and WOW! Some of us don't know how we lived without it before we tried it. It is really an intense experience, and I feel even closer to My Man when we DP.
People who practice "extreme penetration" with things like two liter bottles and huge dildos etc may have anal prolapse, but normal anal sex, either with toy or penis or finger will not "stretch" and the anus permanently. You can learn to control the anus, so penetration is not only not painful, but pleasurable, but it doesn't "Stretch." The human body just isn't made this way.
Think about it. You have all different sizes of poops come out of you. Your anus stays or goes back to the same size after the bowel movement. That is what it is made for. You put large food into your mouth, does your mouth "stretch" and stay bigger if you like to bite big sandwiches? No. The anus and the vagina are actually as, if not more able to snap back to their original size and shape than the mouth, so she doesn't need to worry.
Take it slow, use a lot of lube, stop if she says to, try small things first (starter plugs or small finger) and many women and men do find they enjoy anal penetration a LOT.
Add vaginal penetration to a woman and WOW! Some of us don't know how we lived without it before we tried it. It is really an intense experience, and I feel even closer to My Man when we DP.
07/18/2010
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She is 100% wrong and that is a myth perpetuated by people trying to stamp out anal sex. The anal sphincter is a muscle that gets plenty of exercize. The act of anal sex is about relaxing the muscle not stretching it, like the vaginal canal it will snap back into shape with minimal effort. It is the strongest muscle in the body (the sphincter) and actually has two parts to prevent "leakage". Done correctly and without pain anal sex won't lead to anything bad, done incorrectly with pain it can lead to hemorrhoids in those people already predisposed to them and tearing. With proper preparation and gentle care you can introduce anal sex to your partner without any negative effects. Get this book link and learn the truth for her sake and for yours.
Originally posted by
trios
I would love to with my wife. We are still atarting out on our sex life exploration (after 7 years of marriage!) and she is a little timid about trying this with a dildo or my finger.
Obviously with my member name I am into the fantasy of ...
Obviously with my member name I am into the fantasy of ...
I would love to with my wife. We are still atarting out on our sex life exploration (after 7 years of marriage!) and she is a little timid about trying this with a dildo or my finger.
Obviously with my member name I am into the fantasy of threesomes. This will never happen in reality, but maybe in the future with a dildo we can get into this!
My wife is afraid of stretching the anal sphincter, because she says it can, unlike the vagina, stretch out for good and cause fecal incontinence later in life- is this true ya think?
Obviously with my member name I am into the fantasy of threesomes. This will never happen in reality, but maybe in the future with a dildo we can get into this!
My wife is afraid of stretching the anal sphincter, because she says it can, unlike the vagina, stretch out for good and cause fecal incontinence later in life- is this true ya think?
Oh and sorry to say it but having babies one after another can stretch the vagina muscles beyond easy repair...hence the recent hype about vaginoplasty. If you give your body at least three years to recover after a baby and you work your kegels it will prevent that stretching. Again it doesn't happen to all women anymore than all women get hemorrhoids from the pressure of childbirth. Just another indication that as humans we are meant to work our muscles to keep them in shape!
I have never tried actual double penetration beyond a finger because I am one of those lucky few who got both extrenal and internal 'roids from childbirth (another reason to resist pitocin assisted labor) but we are working on my being able to relax and enjoy anal penetration because it's something both guys would love to try.
07/18/2010
Some women actually find the familiar sensation of vaginal penetration good before the anal penetration is presented. We worked up to it, not only by making sure I had orgasms before we tried any anal penetration, but also to fill the vagina with something so it feels "familiar." Everybody's body is different, but some women do respond well to this method.
Airen is right that some women have problems with vaginas because of childbirth, but this is usually due to episiotomies or 3rd degree tears, which usually ONLY happen with episiotomies, if the vagina is left alone during childbirth, the chance of tearing is much lower than if the doctor introduces an artificial "tear" with and epis, and then the body just keeps tearing. But, like Airen also said, doing your Kegals and taking care of yourself and spacing babies can help a lot.
And, of course, there are different tissue strengths and muscle strengths in the vagina as well as everywhere else, the vagina is only "stretched" for a short period of time during childbirth, and if there are no tears or cuts, the "snap back" factor should work pretty well. But, everyone is different.
Airen is right that some women have problems with vaginas because of childbirth, but this is usually due to episiotomies or 3rd degree tears, which usually ONLY happen with episiotomies, if the vagina is left alone during childbirth, the chance of tearing is much lower than if the doctor introduces an artificial "tear" with and epis, and then the body just keeps tearing. But, like Airen also said, doing your Kegals and taking care of yourself and spacing babies can help a lot.
And, of course, there are different tissue strengths and muscle strengths in the vagina as well as everywhere else, the vagina is only "stretched" for a short period of time during childbirth, and if there are no tears or cuts, the "snap back" factor should work pretty well. But, everyone is different.
07/18/2010
sweet sally
It took some practice to say for me. I had to start small and worrk my way up, but I do enjoy it every now and then. It is not an everyday thing I want, but do find myself craving a double dick a few time a month.
I have never experienced it with 2 men, just my hubs and my toy collection!
I have never experienced it with 2 men, just my hubs and my toy collection!
07/24/2010
Always....with toys sometimes in a threesome
When ime in the mood its not bad having vaginal sex with my husband while our friend uses a strap on on my ass.
I dont like the toys meant for double penatration but I love using toys both anally and vaginally at the same time. It makes the orgasm so much better for me. Matter of fact I cant think of the last time I masterbated vaginally without an anal toy.
When ime in the mood its not bad having vaginal sex with my husband while our friend uses a strap on on my ass.
I dont like the toys meant for double penatration but I love using toys both anally and vaginally at the same time. It makes the orgasm so much better for me. Matter of fact I cant think of the last time I masterbated vaginally without an anal toy.
07/26/2010
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In my experience it has not permanently stretched anything out. It is a muscle like any other in the body. I also just had a baby 3 months ago. With regular kiegels things are actually tighter than they were before, and hemmroids from birth, a thing of the past. I haven't looked it up for sure, but personal experience has led me to believe that, no normal anal play won't cause any long term damage. Hope this helps.
Originally posted by
trios
I would love to with my wife. We are still atarting out on our sex life exploration (after 7 years of marriage!) and she is a little timid about trying this with a dildo or my finger.
Obviously with my member name I am into the fantasy of ...
Obviously with my member name I am into the fantasy of ...
I would love to with my wife. We are still atarting out on our sex life exploration (after 7 years of marriage!) and she is a little timid about trying this with a dildo or my finger.
Obviously with my member name I am into the fantasy of threesomes. This will never happen in reality, but maybe in the future with a dildo we can get into this!
My wife is afraid of stretching the anal sphincter, because she says it can, unlike the vagina, stretch out for good and cause fecal incontinence later in life- is this true ya think?
Obviously with my member name I am into the fantasy of threesomes. This will never happen in reality, but maybe in the future with a dildo we can get into this!
My wife is afraid of stretching the anal sphincter, because she says it can, unlike the vagina, stretch out for good and cause fecal incontinence later in life- is this true ya think?
08/01/2010