How Old Do You Think...

kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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How old do you think teenagers need to be before they use a vibrator or sex toy? To be honest, I only thought about having sex toys after I was eighteen and moved out of my parent's home, but my 15 year old sister wants one. Do other people think that she might be a little young? She is sexually active, and I think that plays a big role in this because I wasn't sexually active until I was almost eighteen.
10/22/2012
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Girly Juice Girly Juice
I don't see why there should be a hard limit. They should get sex toys if and when they want to. Adolescents are sexual beings, even though our society often doesn't feel comfortable admitting that.
10/22/2012
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by Girly Juice
I don't see why there should be a hard limit. They should get sex toys if and when they want to. Adolescents are sexual beings, even though our society often doesn't feel comfortable admitting that.
I know that my mother would never approve, but I don't necessarily have a problem with it. It's just weird I guess because she's my baby sister, and she's growing up lol... Thanks for your input.
10/22/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by kkizzee05
How old do you think teenagers need to be before they use a vibrator or sex toy? To be honest, I only thought about having sex toys after I was eighteen and moved out of my parent's home, but my 15 year old sister wants one. Do other people think ... More
I don't see the difference between 17 and 18, but 15 is a bit young...It's not hurting anyone though I guess
10/22/2012
Nurse Katie Nurse Katie
I had my first one at 16. I think you're right; its a big connection to when you start being sexually active.
10/22/2012
Ansley Ansley
I don't think there is any real correlation here. Since there's no way to measure one's predilection to having sex earlier than a peer of the same age group, it's really difficult to say if one has anything to do with the other.

Sexual beings are sexual beings, it doesn't matter if they were introduced to the concept at six, sixteen, or sixty-six. If it's something they are interested in, they will find a way to earn the knowledge.

I ultimately think it's really just that simple. If a twelve year old girl is curious about sex and desires to find out everything she can on the subject, she will; regardless of the walls others try to put up for her. If a twelve year old girl isn't interested in finding out what sex is about, then she will wait until she is interested.

I think hypersexual activity seen in teenagers is something that would be there regardless if they were exposed to the world or kept in a plastic bubble with no outside information of the world whatsoever. Knowledge is just the gateway to sating their desires.
10/22/2012
ToyGeek ToyGeek
Make sure she has a good hiding place, gets something safe and knows how to use it safely, etc. Better to get her something than to have her use something makeshift and get hurt.
10/22/2012
Gracefire Gracefire
This is one of those things where I would take into account the maturity level of the teenager.

You said she is already sexually active, so I really don't see an issue with getting her a sex toy. You may even want to throw in a pack of condoms just to make sure she is being safe both with her toys and with her partners!
10/22/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Defer to the parents - you can't get into the business of deciding which rules a parent enforces are good or bad. There is plenty of time for her as adult to explore toys. Don't her fingers work?
10/23/2012
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by Ansley
I don't think there is any real correlation here. Since there's no way to measure one's predilection to having sex earlier than a peer of the same age group, it's really difficult to say if one has anything to do with the ... More
That is very insightful. Thanks
10/23/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by Ansley
I don't think there is any real correlation here. Since there's no way to measure one's predilection to having sex earlier than a peer of the same age group, it's really difficult to say if one has anything to do with the ... More
Cheers to this.
10/23/2012
buttcleavage buttcleavage
I feel like sex toys are a better alternative to sex at such a young age until someone it ready. At least with a toy they can learn more about themselves/their body and know what they like and when they are ready.
10/23/2012
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by buttcleavage
I feel like sex toys are a better alternative to sex at such a young age until someone it ready. At least with a toy they can learn more about themselves/their body and know what they like and when they are ready.
Me too
10/24/2012
LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
If she doesn't have a real toy, she'll use other toys. lol I found weird alternatives and something normal probably would have been better. There's nothing wrong with her having one. It's not like they're something she doesn't know all about already and you're destroying her innocence. XD
10/24/2012
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by LoooveMonkey
If she doesn't have a real toy, she'll use other toys. lol I found weird alternatives and something normal probably would have been better. There's nothing wrong with her having one. It's not like they're something she doesn't ... More
I understand that she knows all about them, she is a very sexual person I suppose. I just think it is odd, but I think it's just because she's my baby sister. Thanks for your input
10/24/2012
levellc09 levellc09
Honestly if she is old enough to have sex what's the harm of a non STI or STD carrying non impregnating sex toy. : )
10/24/2012
closed account closed account
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Originally posted by ToyGeek
Make sure she has a good hiding place, gets something safe and knows how to use it safely, etc. Better to get her something than to have her use something makeshift and get hurt.
very good points. with those things said...she's already sexually active and has hit puberty so i do'nt think it hurts anything. it's awesome she has a knowledgeable big sis to talk to about it.
10/24/2012
jmillz jmillz
Im 20 and didn't want one till I got into college. But for people younger than me, I don't view it as a big deal. If they can afford it, then let them have it. (As long as they use them correctly.)
10/24/2012
gorgeous gorgeous
She can either have play time alone with a toy or have real sex with a guy and the possibility of getting pregnant. Which sounds better to you?
01/14/2013
Shade Shade
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Originally posted by kkizzee05
How old do you think teenagers need to be before they use a vibrator or sex toy? To be honest, I only thought about having sex toys after I was eighteen and moved out of my parent's home, but my 15 year old sister wants one. Do other people think ... More
It definitely plays a huge role in your life on when you decide to start becoming sexually active. I mean, yeah, she started having sex young, but I wouldn't provide her a vibrator till she was maybe 17 or so.
01/25/2013
Callisto Callisto
I got my first toy at 15 or 16. It was a conair massager from walgreens. If I had a daughter and she was 15/16 and came to me about this.. which is rather likely because of the way television is going.. my hard rule is nothing that could be inserted until she's older.

Otherwise I think it'd be safe to get an over the counter massager or a small wand. Nothing big and intimidating.
01/25/2013
Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
Wow, seems young to me, but I didn't get my first toy until I was 21. If she wants one, then she should have one. No big deal.
01/25/2013
Iamconfused1 Iamconfused1
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Originally posted by Gracefire
This is one of those things where I would take into account the maturity level of the teenager.

You said she is already sexually active, so I really don't see an issue with getting her a sex toy. You may even want to throw in a pack of ... More
I totally agree, maturity of the teenager is the answer to this question. Age is a number, wisdom and muturity come at their own pace.
01/25/2013
BeautyMonster BeautyMonster
I got my first toy when I was 14/15. Before then I would use my fingers, and I hit puberty really early (got my period a few days after my 10th birthday). My mom would have rather me explore my own body sexually through toys than go out and get pregnant, and I have yet to go and sleep anyone even after all these years.
01/25/2013
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
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Originally posted by kkizzee05
How old do you think teenagers need to be before they use a vibrator or sex toy? To be honest, I only thought about having sex toys after I was eighteen and moved out of my parent's home, but my 15 year old sister wants one. Do other people think ... More
I think they should be grown
01/25/2013
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
Thanks for all the input. I have actually gotten her a wand. She has mentioned using it a couple of times and has not been worried about when she will be sleeping with the next guy. I know that sounds weird and odd for a fifteen year old girl, but she makes her own decisions. I am just trying to help her in any way that I can, but she's at that age I guess...
01/26/2013
Cat E. Cat E.
I think late teens is fine.
01/26/2013
bog bog
If the kid is mature and old enough to not only know what a vibrator is, but ask their family for one, then why not get them one?
01/29/2013
Petite Cannibal Petite Cannibal
I honestly don't know what to say... I guess if she's safe and mature enough, it's okay... Unless the parents are strictly against such things.
02/15/2013
nikki0668 nikki0668
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Originally posted by levellc09
Honestly if she is old enough to have sex what's the harm of a non STI or STD carrying non impregnating sex toy. : )
I agree!
02/15/2013
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