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I have a friend who recently told me that just about every girl she knows own at least one vibrator and swears by em. Also my boyfriend is always telling me I should get a toy because he thinks it would be fun to use in the bedroom for
I have a friend who recently told me that just about every girl she knows own at least one vibrator and swears by em. Also my boyfriend is always telling me I should get a toy because he thinks it would be fun to use in the bedroom for foreplay...I'm just not sure. I'm not a prude or anything I'm just worried we might become relient on it? I don't know...I would appreciate some oppinions
Your worry is understandable, but that's not at all how toys happen for most people, if anybody. You'll be perfectly fine to get a vibrator (even the one you linked to above would be a good first couple's toy!) and not become dependant on it.
My partner and I have been together for 6 years, and I began using my toys during our foreplay after almost one year of being together, he enjoys using them on me too. To be honest though, even with my pretty big collection, and long-time use of the toys (not at all regular use though) we don't even use them half the time! They're just there for when I/we want to add something extra. Tonight for instance, I used the new Sqweel 2 on him just for fun, but only for a few minutes and then we do our own thing.
It's really, really unlikely you'll become dependant on toys. In fact, you'll probably enjoy the thrill a whole lot more than anything, and then you'll probably like incorporating them into play every once in a while, but it's not likely you'll even like them as much as your activities (foreplay/intercourse) with your partner.
I don't think any couple uses toys every single time. We only do during foreplay.
I hope you'll check back here and begin to worry less. It's really not an addictive thing, the toy play. I don't know about "swearing" by a vibrator. I'm not THAT in love with my toys. I always much prefer my partner over them, but just like the fun and sensations of him using them on me during foreplay.