Need help.. I really want to get into some prostate play with the wife. But I don't want her thinking I'm gay or anything. I just like the way it feels. How do I do this? Help!
How to get the wife into prostate play.
02/08/2013
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have you talked to her about it?
02/08/2013
Honesty is the best policy. just ask her about it.
02/08/2013
Girls don't care, they won't think you are gay. Nothing you do with a woman is gay so don't worry about that. Just make sure you are clean and she'll most likely go for it, just be upfront and honest. Good girls are pleasers so if you like it then they like it.
It is a crazy awkward conversation to have. The hardest part is starting it. "So babe, how do you feel about finger blasting my butt". See I couldn't even type that without laughing and feeling weird.
It is a crazy awkward conversation to have. The hardest part is starting it. "So babe, how do you feel about finger blasting my butt". See I couldn't even type that without laughing and feeling weird.
02/08/2013
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Does she enjoy being on the receiving end of anal play?
Originally posted by
BigGuyFunTime
Need help.. I really want to get into some prostate play with the wife. But I don't want her thinking I'm gay or anything. I just like the way it feels. How do I do this? Help!
02/09/2013
I agree. Just be honest but don't be too serious. If you sit someone down with a serious tone they tend to expect the worst.
02/09/2013
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I was hesitant to ask her at first, but when I did she loved the idea. She loves using a vibrating anal/prostate toy to stimulate my prostate while she gives me a blowjob/ She says that I produce more cum like this and she loves a mouthful of cum.
Originally posted by
married with children
have you talked to her about it?
02/09/2013
Wow, wish MY man would want to try it out!
I always tell him that he would enjoy it...but HE doesn't want to try!
Just open up and be honest...more likely than not, she'll be fine with it
I always tell him that he would enjoy it...but HE doesn't want to try!
Just open up and be honest...more likely than not, she'll be fine with it
02/09/2013
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Kiss - you might try encouraging him by working up to it. A little rimming can change a guys mind quickly.
Originally posted by
RedGlitter
Wow, wish MY man would want to try it out!
I always tell him that he would enjoy it...but HE doesn't want to try!
Just open up and be honest...more likely than not, she'll be fine with it
I always tell him that he would enjoy it...but HE doesn't want to try!
Just open up and be honest...more likely than not, she'll be fine with it
02/13/2013
I think it depends a lot on your comfort with communicating sexual desires. If she's out there shopping with you, you might suggest an anal toy. As asked by Herzer above, does she like anal play? In a lot of cases people seem to just jump into something drunkenly. That's generally a bad way to go about it, alcohol or other drugs are not going to help the experience, if it's something you're exploring you don't want to be stumbling, but if you have a drink or two it can help you discuss things. Best to talk and get some input, but if not, you can surreptitiously work a finger towards her back end (very slowly work your way there, don't just jab!). If she responds positively or negatively it can at least help break the ice. My wife seems more comfortable with me using anal toys than asking her to do anything back there, so see what she's comfortable with.
02/18/2013
I agree, try talking to her about it. My partner and I find that open communication is a good foundation for a relationship and I've found out I enjoy things I never thought I would with them~!
02/18/2013
I wrote this article on the subject. It might help.. Maybe show her?
02/18/2013
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