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I have a hard time with trying to use them I am not quite sure I am doing it correctly any suggestions
Well how have your tried using it so far? I don't think there's really a "wrong" way to use a toy besides being safe. Try experimenting, its really the only way I found out what works for me. One of the main things with any sort of anal toy is to try to initially be relaxed and have some lube.