Is it just me or does anyone else feel this way?

Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
when i start getting mine, they have to be 5 and under ._. i may move up later on in the years, but id rather stay at 5 and under
03/22/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Nope, I'm fine with the girthier toys.
03/22/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
I've felt that way before so it's pretty normal for me too. I wouldn't worry about it at all.
03/22/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
I do have issues with the girth as well. When I had my hysterectomy, they removed the cervix and 3/4" below it then sewed my vaginal top up. This seriously shortened me and while being shorter has nothing to do with girth, per se, the dilators and extenders I had to use have made me unable to take larger girthed items. I have started a couple of them and can eventually do it, but am trying that for rare occasions. It just hurts too much afterward.
03/22/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I like a smaller circumference for sure!
03/22/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Usually I prefer toys with 5 inches girth, but I can still tolerate ones that are slightly bigger than that; the only item that I wish has a smaller version is the Eleven, I LOVE the shape and design of that dildo, but 6 1/2 inches is just too much for me!
03/22/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by underHim
I feel the same. I like my toys to be under 3.5" in diameter (specific right). That seems to be big enough to get me going and get me off while at the same time my husbands girth is significantly larger than the toy that when we go from toys to ... more
Haha I think you mean 3.5" in circumference. 3.5" in diameter is huge.
03/22/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by Silverdrop
I like skinnier toys too. I can go a bit girthier with dual density silicone, but I still go for the narrower dildos. The fattest dildo I own is the Cush, which I won in a contest, and I haven't gotten the guts up to try it yet. I'm perfectly ... more
Man, I would love to try the Cush, but I keep chickening out on getting it because A) it's bigger than my biggest toy, and B) I hear O2 is firmer than VixSkin, so it'll feel extra large!
03/22/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
I know exactly what you mean. The only time I can take anything larger is when it's not quite so firm.
03/22/2012
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
5 1/2 to 5 3/4 inches in circumference is about perfect for me for a dildo. A hard toy, like glass or wood, can be much smaller and still feel terrific though. I'm more likely to not consider a toy because it's too small rather than because it's too big.
03/22/2012
Contributor: sneako sneako
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Originally posted by Zombirella
I've noticed that many toys that I would like to own (vibes & dildos) tend to have a lot of girth, anyone else feel that way? I can't get comfortable with anything more then 5" in circumference . It really sucks as I was looking ... more
you're not a wimp! every body is different. do what feels good to you.
03/23/2012
Contributor: tigertiger tigertiger
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Originally posted by Zombirella
I've noticed that many toys that I would like to own (vibes & dildos) tend to have a lot of girth, anyone else feel that way? I can't get comfortable with anything more then 5" in circumference . It really sucks as I was looking ... more
yeeah i'm not really wild about anything all that wide. [url=link]this toy[/url] works great for me, but i have wider toys i don't actually like at all. :/ maybe i need more lube or just to get used to it, idk
03/23/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Zombirella
I've noticed that many toys that I would like to own (vibes & dildos) tend to have a lot of girth, anyone else feel that way? I can't get comfortable with anything more then 5" in circumference . It really sucks as I was looking ... more
Yes
03/23/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
5 inches in circumference is ideal for me too. I tend to pay more attention to the circumference measurement as well. I notice that the diameter measurements are less accurately reported.
03/24/2012
Contributor: November November
Quote:
Originally posted by underHim
I feel the same. I like my toys to be under 3.5" in diameter (specific right). That seems to be big enough to get me going and get me off while at the same time my husbands girth is significantly larger than the toy that when we go from toys to ... more
Great recommendation! I just added this to my wish list!
03/24/2012
Contributor: hyperballad hyperballad
i'm the complete opposite - anything less than 1.75 inches diameter is boring :c
03/24/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
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Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
Haha I think you mean 3.5" in circumference. 3.5" in diameter is huge.
Oops, yeah in circumfrence. I have always been bad with those math type terms.
03/24/2012
Contributor: Trepier Trepier
My girlfriend doesn't like anything more than 5' in circumference. She would rather have something that is focused on g-spot stimulation, clit, or both.
03/25/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I feel the same way, I want smaller toys and some look like they would be fantastic if it wasn't for the girth. Each person is different though.
03/25/2012
Contributor: jeep9 jeep9
i feel the same
03/25/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Zombirella
I've noticed that many toys that I would like to own (vibes & dildos) tend to have a lot of girth, anyone else feel that way? I can't get comfortable with anything more then 5" in circumference . It really sucks as I was looking ... more
I was so disappointed with myself when I found out I couldn't take grittier toys. I really really wish that I could but I can't. It is so painful and doesn't feel good in any way.
03/25/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
What I don't like is that all the girthy toys are realistic looking.
03/25/2012
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
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Originally posted by Sammi
I'm the opposite - I tend to go for 5"+ in circumference, if at all possible.
Same here.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by underHim
Oops, yeah in circumfrence. I have always been bad with those math type terms.
Just remember that circumference goes around in a circle.
03/28/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I like thicker toys. I seem to get off easier the thicker the toy is.
Skinnier ones are ok if they're squishey or bendable.
03/30/2012
Contributor: asphyxia asphyxia
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Originally posted by Positwist
I have the opposite problem. 1.5" diameter is about as small as I can go with my apparently cavernous vagina.
Thank you for cracking me up!!

I'm right there with you. I think I like the thicker toys too. I recently acquired a bent graduate and I was shocked to see how tiny it is. I'm just now starting out with toys but my current favorite is a 1.75'' diameter (5.5'' circumference).
03/31/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
I'm another opposite here. I won't even consider buying anything below 1.5" diameter for vaginal use, because I know I won't be happy with it.
03/31/2012
Contributor: Sugarfina Sugarfina
Quote:
Originally posted by Zombirella
I've noticed that many toys that I would like to own (vibes & dildos) tend to have a lot of girth, anyone else feel that way? I can't get comfortable with anything more then 5" in circumference . It really sucks as I was looking ... more
I know where you're coming from. a lot of times lube helps, and of course every vagina is different.
04/01/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
I disagree, I love lots of girth!
04/01/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Zombirella
I've noticed that many toys that I would like to own (vibes & dildos) tend to have a lot of girth, anyone else feel that way? I can't get comfortable with anything more then 5" in circumference . It really sucks as I was looking ... more
Yes, alot are too girthy
04/04/2012