might be a fun introduction, if you're sure he's a fan of this type of stimulation id buy the kit items individually in larger storage safe quantities. The oral jell and (4) mints don't really look resealable not sure if the ring can be cleaned. I think the kit is meant as special occasion/experimentati on gift so if that's where you stand its probably a pretty good product. No clue about the texture of the ring prob similar to most vibrating cock rings cant really tell much from the pic