Male Impotence Partner Frustration

SamanthaMoon SamanthaMoon
I have a partner/husband suffering from low testosterone/cannot maintain an errection long enough to even penetrate, causing frustration for both of us to the point we don't even try any more. Together anyway. I know he's as frustrated as I am but he won't go to the doctor to discuss. Against his manhood. Any suggestions? He has tried every herbal out there, none have worked. Suggestions please!
01/02/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by SamanthaMoon
I have a partner/husband suffering from low testosterone/cannot maintain an errection long enough to even penetrate, causing frustration for both of us to the point we don't even try any more. Together anyway. I know he's as frustrated as I ... More
doctor is your best and safest bet i think, it may be hard for him, but its important.
01/02/2013
js250 js250
It can be a sign of a dangerous condition with his heart--he needs to get checked out by his doctor! As for sex, play with toys together--get a pump and cock ring for him and vibes and a dildo for you. Let him penetrate with the dildo or play with the vibes...make an extended foreplay out of it, no pressure and have him give you an orgasm either with his fingers/tongue or a toy.
01/02/2013
travelnurse travelnurse
I understand, Husband uses pump and cock rings. There is a Deuce harness for men to wear and it has one hole for him and one hole for the dildo. We don't have it yet but it is on the way. We have done this with other harnesses and it has made for an enjoyable situation for both of us. The other harness aren't built for his to wear though and get uncomfortable.

So I have the Deuce coming and I am so very excited. Some prostate play has made things better too.
01/02/2013
SamanthaMoon SamanthaMoon
Quote:
Originally posted by travelnurse
I understand, Husband uses pump and cock rings. There is a Deuce harness for men to wear and it has one hole for him and one hole for the dildo. We don't have it yet but it is on the way. We have done this with other harnesses and it has made ... More
Thanks, keep me posted on how you like the Deuce!
01/06/2013
SamanthaMoon SamanthaMoon
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
It can be a sign of a dangerous condition with his heart--he needs to get checked out by his doctor! As for sex, play with toys together--get a pump and cock ring for him and vibes and a dildo for you. Let him penetrate with the dildo or play with ... More
I agree on the possibility of health concerns. I am currently trying to convince him to try a pump, unfortunately he sucks at finger/tongue now with the added pressure. It is definitely messing with his head. Thank you for the support and validation!
01/06/2013
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