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Contributor: RandomSparkles RandomSparkles
In your opinion what is the best way to approach your hubby on getting more time in the bed? I love my husband to death but I guess I am in the stage of wanting more sex then he does.
03/11/2011
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Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Communication is the key to any good relationship. Both tell him what you want and ask him to help fulfill that need.
Good Luck
03/11/2011
Contributor: Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
Have you tried anything new or exciting lately that might entice him?
03/11/2011
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
defently tell him. He might be wanting more as well but if you both are waiting for the other one to make the first move and neither one of you do you both end up frustraded.
03/11/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
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Originally posted by RandomSparkles
In your opinion what is the best way to approach your hubby on getting more time in the bed? I love my husband to death but I guess I am in the stage of wanting more sex then he does.
I'm so there. I think my hormones have kicked into high gear and he definitely isn't keeping up. Communication is always there but other times I just wanna pounce and talking ain't gonna cut it. I've found the easiest way to get him into the bedroom for sex is to ask him up at different times not wait for bed time. My kids are old enough now that they don't need constant supervision and can watch a movie or what not. Quite often I'll get a smart ass reply, "You know they make toys for that." I usually reply with, "Yes, I know very well," and then I'll trail off mumbling about my new toy. He always comes upstairs after me to see what I'm getting into.
03/11/2011
Contributor: RandomSparkles RandomSparkles
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Originally posted by RonLee
Communication is the key to any good relationship. Both tell him what you want and ask him to help fulfill that need.
Good Luck
Thank You... I try to communicate, but its getting no where. =)
03/14/2011
Contributor: RandomSparkles RandomSparkles
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Originally posted by SexyTabby
I'm so there. I think my hormones have kicked into high gear and he definitely isn't keeping up. Communication is always there but other times I just wanna pounce and talking ain't gonna cut it. I've found the easiest way to get ... more
He's always so tired, and grouchy. I am always wanting sex these days and the toys are not working anymore...lol
03/14/2011
Contributor: RandomSparkles RandomSparkles
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Originally posted by Pleasure Piratess
Have you tried anything new or exciting lately that might entice him?
Oh yes, I have been trying new stuff all the time... The massage candle I reviewed was awesome and got me laid that night, but since then it's been slowly becoming non-exsistant.
03/14/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I've tried it too; talking, joking, buying toys. My man works so much his libido has taken the hit but mine is still going strong. I haven't come up with a good solution except to tell him the less he gives it to me for free, the more I will spend on it for toys. I hoped that would appeal to his inner penny pincher and macho man who doesn't really like all the toys. So far I just get the occasional chuckle or eye roll.

It's not an easy road but I wanted to say you're not alone and wish you luck.
03/14/2011