Need advice on the best Wand Massager???

Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31 10/10/2010

After reading what others say about these wand massagers, I'm very keen to get my hands on one. I have chosen the ones I like but am needing a little more advice from others would own one of these.
I love the rechargable feature - although I dont think I'd have a big issue with a cord one.
The main issue is the noise. With living with other people, I preferably need one as quiet as possible.
But again, I wouldn't necessarily let that stop me buying one if a noisy one is better.

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Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Which massager would you receommend for power and that is usable when living with others?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Owl Identified , Tart , Jul!a , JGrey
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Yesenia , PuplePleasures
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Alicia , Danielle1220 , PuplePleasures , swf , ShadowKitten , Miss Anonymous , Love Perpetua
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~LaUr3n~ , SydVicious , Tuesday , cherryredhead88 , Pandahb , namelesschaos , Coralbell , XXXXXXXXXXXXX , sasweetheart89 , meganthomas , mnc5051 , Lif3sambiguity , Kiskis2 , Sohotdinosaur , Anne Ardeur , alistair , kitti , princesspassion , moonlitlilly , cherryblossoms , fairykisses , purplecandles , Kimbertrees , glitterhugs , Boredum , Lady Venus , Jimmy.P , Free , sweet seduction , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , C4ss , ellejay , dhig , The Curious Couple , Lady Marmelade , Lio , sixfootsex , Solar Ray , girl next door , Miss T , Drifter86 , Adam02viper , Willis2011 , miamortis , nicole07 , systematicweasel , Miss Anonymous , LuciFaery , Breas , Howells , Bignuf , Jon S , Stagger13 , Kaltir , ~miss senora~ , Apirka , Teacookie , destinationtwilight , SMichelle , BlooJay , Kithara , GONE! , deltalima
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Yesenia , Naughty Student , PuplePleasures , Akikaze , DeliciousSurprise , Emma (Girl With Fire) , LavenderSkies , *HisMrs* , nicole07
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cherryredhead88 , Yesenia , PuplePleasures , VieuxCarre , *HisMrs* , w-o-name , Willis2011 , Neurogasm
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Tuesday , Mr. E , Envy , DustBunny , PuplePleasures , dv8 , Tart , Redboxbaby , Lady Marmelade , Lio , REDRUM , liilii080 , ShadowKitten , wetone123 , Adam02viper , Willis2011 , miamortis , ichwillwaffels , Lolla Munz , sexygoddess , potstickers , Beck , Lucky21 , kellyg , badk1tty , Love Perpetua , ninja250 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , VelvetDragon , deltalima
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Contributor: SydVicious SydVicious
I have the Pocket Fairy, the Inspire, the rechargeable Mystic and the Hitachi. The Mystic is nice and strong and is cordless but a little loud. The Hitachi is WAY loud. The Pocket fairy is nice, but a little buzzy and doesn't have many vibration speed options. The Inspire have a ton of speed and pattern choices, is pretty quiet, it have a bit of a rattling sound to it, but I think it's pretty discrete if you live with others. The one and only problem with the Inspire is that it has to be plugged in to be used. Other than that, it's pretty awesome.

If you really want a cordless that my second place choice would be the Mystic rechargeable. Hope that helps.
10/10/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I have the Fairy Wand, the Magic Wand and the Inspire. The Magic Wand is my favorite of the three. Its vibrations are deeper - at least they're deeper than the Fairy Wand. Inspire is excellent too. Both Inspire and Fairy Wand have a rattly sound to them. But all three are quite loud. and Inspire gets really hot if you use it for any length of time so you probably don't want to use that one under the covers.
10/10/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
I find the rechargeable Mystic to be much quieter than the two Fairies that I have. I have the Fairy rechargeable and the Fairy Miniature though, don't have the pocket fairy. I can use the Mystic wand without anyone knowing I am using it though, pretty awesome!
10/10/2010
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
I am also trying to decide which one to get... I have not owned any of these yet but I am between the Inspire and the Fairy Mini. Good luck, and I will be following to see what you end up getting and how it works for you!
10/10/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Thankyou.
I have noticed most end up buying a few different types.
I watched some of the review videos again and took a little more notice of the noise and the operating buttons.
So narrowed it more down to the Couture, Mystic and Acuvibe.

I like the silicone head on the Mystic and in the video it seemed like one of the most quiet of all of them.
Has anyone found there is a max time limit per session on the Mystic?
I know the instructions for the Couture says 5 - 20mins just wondered if the others have the same.

Im not so keen on the button system on the Couture. I prefer to have a seperate on/off button incase ya need it off in a hurry.

I got the impression the Acuvibe was more so a body massager and too powerful to be used on the clit for alot of people.

I found the Hitachi was very loud and maybe a little too big.
They dont actually look that big until ya see them in a video. I was surprised at the size of them.

Theres too much choice!
10/10/2010
Contributor: Pandahb Pandahb
They are so similar!
10/11/2010
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
I've only tried the Hitachi, full sized Fairy wand and the Inspire. Of those I'd get the Inspire smaller (easier to hide)and just a powerful. Unfortunately they are all kind a of loud, if you want something quite but powerful I would honestly skip the wands and get the gun shaped Wahl.
10/11/2010
Contributor: wondertoes wondertoes
Thanks for the helpful thread! I'm also interested in a wand...looks like I have some research to do. I was leaning toward the pocket fairy, but I might do some research after reading this!
10/11/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Decisions, decisions.
I'll look into the gun shape one.
I dont have a problem hiding any, its basically just the noise.
10/12/2010
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
From the options given my vote is for the Hitachi Wand. Two reasons. First is because we have and love the Hitachi. Second, is because we have and the Hitachi.

No really, why the Hitachi? It's been around...like forever. There's a reason for that. It is very reliable and super powerful. Too powerful? Possibly, but you can reduce its power by using indirect contact. Try grasping the bulb of the wand in your palm while using your index finger to rub tight little circles on your clit. You can touch ever so slightly or apply firm pressure as needed. I have also read about people using a variable speed controller to lighten the intensity. I hope to try one soon.

The Hitachi is among the least expensive of the ones that you are asking about. You could use the money saved to purchase one of the silicone attachments for it. We have 3 attachments for ours. I don't recommend the cheapo attachments. They are too flexible and are of limited use.

You could also consider the Wahl 7 in 1 that namelesschaos mentioned. It is not a wand, but it is quite powerful in a different kind of way. More of a deep percussion feel to it. We also like it bunches and bunches. It comes with a suction cup attachment that will adhere to many silicone dildos.

Good luck!
10/12/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
The only wand massager I have is the Acuvibe Mini, and I ADORE the thing. It goes from zero to orgasm in about 45 seconds for me. It can be a little TOO strong for some though.
10/12/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Shellz31
Thankyou.
I have noticed most end up buying a few different types.
I watched some of the review videos again and took a little more notice of the noise and the operating buttons.
So narrowed it more down to the Couture, Mystic and ... more
I haven't noticed the Mystic to heat up when used too long, so it doesn't seem to have the same type of maximum use time like some of the others. My fairy minimini does heat up after 20 minutes to the point that I need to turn it off.
10/12/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I am leaning towards the Mystic. From the videos - it seemed to be the most quiet. But I think I may have to buy a few different types. I also need my own place so noise wont be an issue.
From the videos, the Hitachi really doesnt do much for me - very noisy and huge.
I know it would be fantastic for massaging but when it comes to any form of sexual massage - I find the smaller, the better.
I checked out the Acuvibe Mini and I quite like that too.
Unless they come out with more (and for sure they will) before I buy them, I think I'll get the Mystic, Acuvibe Mini and the Inspire.
Thankyou for all the advice.
10/13/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
My first choice the is fairy wand massager but my second choice would be the mystic wand rechargable.
10/14/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Thanks. In the end I settled on getting the Mystic wand. But now its out of stock....grrrrr.
Anyone know how likely it is that they will restock this item and do items stay out of stock for long????
Finally decide what I want and its gone. I kinda should be use to that...lol.
10/18/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Shellz31
Thanks. In the end I settled on getting the Mystic wand. But now its out of stock....grrrrr.
Anyone know how likely it is that they will restock this item and do items stay out of stock for long????
Finally decide what I want and its gone. I ... more
Did you set an alert for it? You'll get an email when it's back in stock. It's pretty new so I would think they'd be getting more in.
10/18/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
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Originally posted by Alicia
Did you set an alert for it? You'll get an email when it's back in stock. It's pretty new so I would think they'd be getting more in.
Yes, I set an alert and it was back in stock pretty quickly. But while it was out of stock I bought the BTC so Im building my points up a little and then this one is next! Cant wait to get it.
10/23/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Shellz31
Yes, I set an alert and it was back in stock pretty quickly. But while it was out of stock I bought the BTC so Im building my points up a little and then this one is next! Cant wait to get it.
BTC? What's that? (Forgive me if it's something super simple..I haven't had my coffee yet!)
10/23/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
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Originally posted by Alicia
BTC? What's that? (Forgive me if it's something super simple..I haven't had my coffee yet!)
Sorry - Better Than Chocolate. It was that or Layaspot but decided to get the BTC first.
Theres just too many toys I want .. I need to win lotto and then move to a bigger house...hehehe. Fantasizing about a large walk-in robe just filled with all sorts of toys. Yum.
10/23/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Shellz31
Sorry - Better Than Chocolate. It was that or Layaspot but decided to get the BTC first.
Theres just too many toys I want .. I need to win lotto and then move to a bigger house...hehehe. Fantasizing about a large walk-in robe just filled with ... more
Ahhh ok! Yea, I hear the Better Than Chocolate is really nice. I'm saving up right now for the Siri and the Elise! There's just so many nice vibes that I want, and even though I already have plenty I'm always finding new ones I want to try!
10/23/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
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Originally posted by Alicia
Ahhh ok! Yea, I hear the Better Than Chocolate is really nice. I'm saving up right now for the Siri and the Elise! There's just so many nice vibes that I want, and even though I already have plenty I'm always finding new ones I want to try!
I looked at the Siri - its on my list too...lol. I think its a never ending mission .. can never have too many!
I've only got 2 vibrators plus my bullets. I was never really into the vibrating toys but after Eden sent me the Jenna's Velvet Jewels, I have a new love.
I have the Sqweel so I really want to try the SaSi to see if its better. For the price though, it doesnt have too many vrooms which is the only part that concerns me. Guess I wont know til I get one!
10/23/2010
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
I like the rechargeable Mystic. Its known to be pretty quiet and its rechargeable!!
10/23/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Those were two very attractive features to me. I thought it was the most quiet when I watched the videos of the different ones. And ya just cant beat rechargeable. Im one who often forgets to replace my stock of batteries - before getting into the rechargeable batteries.
10/23/2010
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I've tried the Pocket Fairy, Mystic Wand and the Inspire, and I prefer the Inspire because it's definitely the strongest and it lets you pick the perfect strength rather than using 2 or 3 preset ones. I did a review on the Mystic Wand and gave it 5 vrooms, but the Inspire is easily twice as strong if not more. The Pocket Fairy I would give a 4. It's more like a bullet than a wand. I kind of wish I'd gotten a Fairy Mini instead of the Inspire though because the dial control would make it a lot easier to lower the speed, which I always do if I want to have more than one orgasm.
10/23/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
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Originally posted by Coralbell
I've tried the Pocket Fairy, Mystic Wand and the Inspire, and I prefer the Inspire because it's definitely the strongest and it lets you pick the perfect strength rather than using 2 or 3 preset ones. I did a review on the Mystic Wand and ... more
Im definitely going to have to get a few different types of these massagers. I really want the Mystic Wand first followed by the Inspire. First I need to build a large timber toy box to keep all these new toys I want....lol.
10/24/2010
Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
Couture collection inspire
11/07/2010
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
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Originally posted by Shellz31
Which massager would you receommend for power and that is usable when living with others?
Get Thalia when it comes out! I got it for description and blows me out of the water. Out of these, I have the fairy wand but it works better for back massages for me. I am absolutely blown away by thalia!
11/23/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
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Originally posted by cherryredhead88
Get Thalia when it comes out! I got it for description and blows me out of the water. Out of these, I have the fairy wand but it works better for back massages for me. I am absolutely blown away by thalia!
Ohhhh, I'll have to keep an eye out for that one!
Does it have the grooves that the Mystic Wand has on the head?
Cheers.
11/24/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Fairy Wand!!! TRUST ME, you're gonna vibrate your clit right off LOL It's so powerful. I love mine so much that I feel like I should name it.
11/24/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I love the fairy mini more than my hitachi to be honest. I highly recommend it
02/02/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Hon, I know I sound like a broken record (and I think Wahl should pay me to promote their product ) but please consider the Classic Wahl.

It is such an amazing machine. I have a really high orgasmic threshold, and the Wahl, even though it may take a little longer, gets me there more often than even the Hitachi does.

And it is SO quiet! I haven't used the Fairies, but I have a Hitachi and a Wahl, and I can't say enough about the Wahl.

I am, however, looking at either the big Fairy or the rechargeable Wahl for my Valentine Day coupon. Oh, decisions.
02/03/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Seems like ya need more than one of these types of wands.

The Inspire seems to be a huge hit for a lot of people.

I ended up getting the MWR and it's very powerful. Sometimes I find it a little smothering for clit play. It's much better now that I have a Tenga egg cover for it!
But I don't use it all that often. Too much choice in toys I think!
02/16/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Yes... I've read some people use a layer in between the wand vibes and their body parts... just to dull the vibes a bit if they are too strong. Of course it would be best if the vibe itself had a sort of infinite adjustment to suit everyone.
02/17/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
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Originally posted by Solar Ray
Yes... I've read some people use a layer in between the wand vibes and their body parts... just to dull the vibes a bit if they are too strong. Of course it would be best if the vibe itself had a sort of infinite adjustment to suit everyone.
Lol - yeah they are powerful or powerful.
I don't find the Tenga egg dulls it - just protects my delicate areas from irritation of the sharp grooves.
I don't really understand why they do those rough edged grooves. I have to wonder if it was just mine that is sharp-ish. It's fine when off but when ya get those strong vibrations going, they do feel sharp on my clit.

The Tenga egg was a fabulous investment!
02/17/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
Looks like everyone is loving the Couture... hmm I might have to try that one myself!
03/27/2011
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
But you knew what I'd be voting for!
03/27/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
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Originally posted by Shellz31
Sorry - Better Than Chocolate. It was that or Layaspot but decided to get the BTC first.
Theres just too many toys I want .. I need to win lotto and then move to a bigger house...hehehe. Fantasizing about a large walk-in robe just filled with ... more
Oh my gosh, I do that too! We should just marry rich?
04/05/2011
Contributor: Willis2011 Willis2011
I am buying the fairy mini wand. I think the hitachi will be way to much.
04/05/2011
Contributor: sexygoddess sexygoddess
I stand by my hitachi. It does work magic, afterall.
04/07/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I'm absolutely obsessed with my Hitachi, but I always use indirect contact (fuzzy blanket in between). However, I am considering getting the Mystic Wand Rechargeable, because it is smaller, cuter, and doesn't need to be plugged in. I think it might be nicer for travel.
08/30/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Based on reading reviews. I would have to say Mystic wand rechargeable. I hope to place a review for this someday soon.
08/30/2011
Contributor: Neurogasm Neurogasm
I'm actually a fan of the Fairy Mini because it's strong as hell but has a turn-dial so you can adjust the speed. I've heard seriously good things about the Mystic Wand, though, so you might want to try that.
10/11/2011
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
The high votes on the couture one makes me curious.
10/11/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I have the Magic Wand and love it, but it is incredibly loud! I'm saving up for a Mystic Wand Rechargeable, I've read some great reviews on that one.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Not sure about the others, but like the inspire
11/12/2011
Contributor: destinationtwilight destinationtwilight
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
Which massager would you receommend for power and that is usable when living with others?
living with others would make for some difficult decisions here
02/16/2012
Contributor: destinationtwilight destinationtwilight
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Originally posted by Love Perpetua
I have the Magic Wand and love it, but it is incredibly loud! I'm saving up for a Mystic Wand Rechargeable, I've read some great reviews on that one.
me too
02/16/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Hitachi, my Baby loves it and it is an awesome body massager!
04/20/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Hitachi, my Baby loves it and it is an awesome body massager!
Yup, or the Fairies...
04/20/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
If you want power, you can't beat the Hitachi. It is indeed loud. It depends, honestly, how close you are living to other people. If you've got thin walls and your rooms are right next to each other, then it might be an issue. However, I've used my Hitachi in the bedroom without people in the computer room next door knowing I'm doing so, and I've used it when we had guests over. It can be used under the covers, which helps, unlike some other wands -- I've humped it on a pillow, which burned out the motor on some rechargeables I've used the same way. Heh. Oops. Simply involving some ambient noise, such as music, or one of those table-top fountains, or something, can go a long way to disguising the sound.
04/21/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Couture collection or hitachi.
04/21/2012