I have never had an orgasm but hand stimulation or by anything a man has done. I feel really frustrated about this and am not sure what to do. I've decided that I might try using a vibrator (have never used one before) to see if this can help me reach orgasm. I'm hoping that if I can reach orgasm at least once, then I'll have a better idea of the stimulation I need and it will be easier to achieve after too. What kind of vibrator would you recommend for a novice that will still give good results?