new hitachi owner

Technine Technine
I just received, among other things, the hitachi wand I ordered. My gf has difficulty getting off (even while masturbating) so I figured we should try some new things. Anyway, we should have some time to try it out over the next couple days so I was wondering.. are there any techniques or positions that could help her/our cause? She has this weird idea that it's insulting to me if she were to give me advice like "it feels better there" or "more pressure here" etc etc. Because of this, I want to have a basic understanding of using the hitachi so any tips would be greatly appreciated
12/28/2010
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Sir Sir
Well, she could hold it between the two of you during missionary, or hold it under herself in doggy-style. The options are endless, honestly. But really, communication is key, so maybe you should tell her that it doesn't bother you if she gives some "direction," so to speak.
12/28/2010
Tim 46311 Tim 46311
All i know is usually when ever my wife and i are having sex she always toward the end says grab the vibrator. She loves it.
12/28/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
Hitachi's are interesting toys. I purchased mine after seeing a woman use it in a porn and figured I probably couldn't get more power than that, which is true, but it's so hard to handle and heavy. It's best saved for body massages.
12/28/2010
idunshire idunshire
Quote:
Originally posted by Technine
I just received, among other things, the hitachi wand I ordered. My gf has difficulty getting off (even while masturbating) so I figured we should try some new things. Anyway, we should have some time to try it out over the next couple days so I was ... More
She should definitely give it a try by herself at first. It's a a super powerful toy so she might want to be the one in charge of it the first couple times she gives it a go, you could watch and enjoy the show...
12/30/2010
liilii080 liilii080
I second idunshire. Have her use it herself first so she can figure out what she likes and then she can help you use it on her or can better manipulate it herself when you use it together.
12/30/2010
Jobthingy Jobthingy
Quote:
Originally posted by liilii080
I second idunshire. Have her use it herself first so she can figure out what she likes and then she can help you use it on her or can better manipulate it herself when you use it together.
ditto. I have not personally used one but know MANY that have.
12/30/2010
Technine Technine
Alright thanks, I'll see if she'd be up for trying it on herself
12/31/2010
Kayla Kayla
Thirded on the suggestion of trying it herself. It is REALLY strong. If you want to make the toy a part of your play, I recommend you give her quite a bit of foreplay without the toy (just teasing or whatnot) then let her play with the Hitachi. The Hitachi will probably be too strong to function as the start of foreplay. It's usually best as a middle-to-near-the-end thing.

Also, if you find she really loves it, check out the Liberator Axis Hitachi sex shape. It's a sex shape that allows her to slide the Hitachi in to the shape and it will hold it up so she can grind up against it in doggy-style position and everything without actually holding it. Sadly, EF doesn't sell it, but if she really loves it, I'm sure you could hunt it out.
12/31/2010
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