new to all this

Well, I'd like to first say Welcome! If you are looking for advise on a toy, this is the right place. EF seems to be a Sex Positive place and you should feel no shame in asking any sort of sex related question you want. I have found that you will get honest and truthful answers to your question here.

Sadly, I'm not qualified to offer advise on your situation. Be patient though, I know someone who is more qualified will answer your question Pchy. less

hello everyone im new to this site and the whole idea of sex toys

been reading through the different discussions and topics and not sure if this is the right place to post my question to get advice.

ill be honest i have never had sex before and i want to start exploring my body and everything people talk about on my own before i do it with another person.

i would love to try out a sex toy to help in this but i am not sure which one is good for a beginner like me there are sooo many and it gets really confusing looking at all of them.

i do know i would like one that is water proof and doesnt make noise.
would be a plus if it was not expensive (being in collage money is tight)

any help or advice on this would be great and even some tips for exploring. im kinda a little intimidated and nervous not sure where or what to start with.
im sorry if this is not the right place for a post like this

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hello everyone im new to this site and the whole idea of sex toys

been reading through the different discussions and topics and not sure if this is the right place to post my question to get advice.

ill be honest i have never had sex before and i want to start exploring my body and everything people talk about on my own before i do it with another person.

i would love to try out a sex toy to help in this but i am not sure which one is good for a beginner like me there are sooo many and it gets really confusing looking at all of them.

i do know i would like one that is water proof and doesnt make noise.
would be a plus if it was not expensive (being in collage money is tight)

any help or advice on this would be great and even some tips for exploring. im kinda a little intimidated and nervous not sure where or what to start with.
im sorry if this is not the right place for a post like this

thank you less

question,

i keep seeing in the forums and reviews and products kegel balls. they sound like they would be helpful and interesting

would they be good for me to invest in and try out? if so which one would be good for a beginner? or should i wait were i am a beginner to all this?

any opinions on this or advice?

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awww, your quite welcome pchy! yeah, it's fine, not weird at all! dont ever feel weird! hey i got a vagina, you got a vagina.... its an awesome thing. i think that your going about a safe and alternative way to enjoy a good old fashion orgasm. this is not the dark ages anymore. its better than going out and exploring with actual people and doing something unsure of, vs hey im exploring myself and chatting with people who hopefully we can all help just by being social and sharing our sexual thoughts. we are all on here, we all have different and unique pleasures we try. for instance like the kegel balls, never did that. or like the bondage, role play not fully did i do that. so rock on mama! i can say for myself, i never tried kegel balls! yupp, never tried them yet. same here, i heard there really suppose to be good for muscles in that region and like make it more tighter and stronger. i will be honest i know if thats the case i would be a perfect candidate because of having four kids..... but I AM CHICKEN! oh my stars, i am scared! because i dont know if its safe for women with multiple cesarean sections... would it like rip my insides apart?? oh boy and how they sit in there.... im just scared. please dont let my negative thoughts push you away from trying kegel balls, its just im very scared. because even now, im still very sensitive when being penetrated. its like a uncomfortable push, or pressure. if you do try the kegel exercise i know this sounds really weird but would you write back and tell how it was?? like if it was painful but def. notice results of strengthening... or like if it didnt work or if different kegel balls were better than another... its def. great talking to you again! take care and have a wondeful night!!!! less

thanks for the reply and advice its great to have this forum and people just like me with the same questions and concerns.

im feeling much better now chatting on here and asking foe advice thank you.

i do really want to try kegel balls but my concern is: where i am still a virgin-never touched or explored my parts or even used a tampon, would it be safe to use kegel balls? do i even need them right now-i see alot of reviews say they help with strengthening and bladder control and all that. and if i would benefit from them which one is best for a beginner like me.

its really great chatting with you also christina thanks you also take care and have a wonderful night also

cant wait to get and try my first vibrator i am def. going with a clit stimulator nothing to strong thinking something with multi-speed to try different things out wooohooo less

thank you very much for replying

its great that this is a safe and friendly forum to post and ask questions on all this

i never had that advantage growing up to learn about all this.

i lost my parents at a young age and was raised by my grandparents- who were very old school and religious when it came to the topic of sex and everything around it. hope its ok if i ask some things at times, this is all so new to me.

i feel kinda dumb asking questions that most know so much about. and its hard to find a reliable answer to alot of questions on the internet. less

Regrettably I'm not qualified to answer this question, however, others might have a little experience with this or have some information that might better serve you. If you post this question in the "Sex & Disability" section under the "Sexual Health" heading, you might get a response sooner. less

I believe everyone feels the same way when it comes to waiting for their toys in the mail — you're not alone!

I'm glad you ordered the Snoo! I'm not familiar with the other item you've ordered, the Lovers Tease, what exactly is that?

The most relaxing way to enjoy your new toy is to lie down on your bed and rest your head on your pillow. Have one hand maneuver the toy while using fingers from your other hand to spread apart your outer lips (labia majora). Without turning the toy on, gently rub the surface of your inner lips (labia minora) and clitoris with the tip of the vibrator along with lube. After a while, you can unfold your inner lips and slowly rub the vibrator's head over the vulva area with gentle up and down motion. When you're accustomed and comfortable with these moves, turn the vibrator on and try the same motions over your clitoris and vulva, that should stimulate you nicely without the need to insert the toy. Please remember to go gentle while you're stimulating the sensitive parts with the toy and always use lubricant. less

hello Rossie thank you for the reply and the great advise

yes the snoo looks really fun
im not really sure or familiar with the lovers tease i saw it in the sale items and looked neat by the description basically says a vibrator to stimulate the clit, nipples and other areas. it fits my budget at the moment and sounds like a fun toy,

yes i am thinking of laying on my back for this i am most comfortable and most relaxed like that which from what i have read from others you really should be relaxed to enjoy exploring your body.

yes great advise on how to use them and i plan on going really slow and taking my time where never done this before. in my opinion there is really no need to rush anything like this. personally i want to get the most out of my first experience.

what kind of lube would be the best for me to get and use with my toys? i have looked at them and there are so many different kinds it is really confusing to me im not sure which one is the right one for my needs. any suggestions? less