I just received my first toy order yesterday, but one of the items I am going to exchange because it only worked for a couple of minutes and then died. Plus it didn't do a single thing for me no matter which setting I used (Lia Lover i10 by California Exotics). The other one I got was the Clit Exciter and once I opened it I was feeling a little negative about it. To my surprise though it gave me an insane orgasm to the point where I started laughing uncontrollably! That has never happened before. My only issue with it is that I wish it wasn't made of hard plastic because I can't give myself the soft touch that I crave. So, now I don't know what to get in exchange for the Lia Lover. This is what I like......oral sex with lots of teasing all over. And incredibly feather light on my clit and inside and outside of my lips in the begining with a build-up of more direct pressure and intensity. I love the wet and soft feeling of tongue more than the feeling of fingers (on the outside of me, at least). I've been looking at several toys with "ticklers".
Now for the g-spot stuff. The best way for me to have a g-spot orgasm is by my husband's two fingers. That works so fast. I haven't even been able to give myself a g-spot orgasm, even with a toy. With the Lia Lover, once it was inside of me the once-powerful vibrations were hardly felt. Which leads me to believe that I need more direct, firm, and targeted stimulation, like fingers. I know I am VERY picky, but if you have any suggestions I would love to have them!
Now for the g-spot stuff. The best way for me to have a g-spot orgasm is by my husband's two fingers. That works so fast. I haven't even been able to give myself a g-spot orgasm, even with a toy. With the Lia Lover, once it was inside of me the once-powerful vibrations were hardly felt. Which leads me to believe that I need more direct, firm, and targeted stimulation, like fingers. I know I am VERY picky, but if you have any suggestions I would love to have them!
