porn

First off I'm so opposed to the entire porn thing that there's not a thing in this world that could get me to become involved in it. But, by some out of this world miracle, say I did... I wouldn't be able to live with myself for bringing that kind of pain on anybody, especially my partner. I have far too much respect for myself, kids, my body and my partner. NEVER. If I did though, I'd leave him first rather than betray him in such a way. My body is something I see as special (not that I think it's special really, just that it's something... sacred? that should only be shared with him) and intimacy is serious to us so it would be betrayal to give myself away like that to others.

I have to say I would never become one it's entirely to degrading, and no way I would let anyone do half that stuff to me. Plus If I did I would be to ashamed to tell anyone

I would tell my partner. I think if I were to start having sex with random hot women and getting paid for it, it would brake her heart. But were I would not tell my family. Not at first anyways.

It would be a decision to make with my partner, and I'm sure my family would be told after a while, but after quite a bit of consideration, and especially if I felt this wouldn't be a job but a career.

Not every woman believes doing porn is degrading. There are in fact quite a few top performers who feel it was the most liberating choice they made, and couldn't be happier. To each his own. What isn't right for you isn't necessarily wrong for someone else.