Some silicone vibes, when pressed against the body with hand or fingers, have a tendency for the vibrations to back off or transmit more to your hand than the desired area of effect (clit or whatever other area you're trying to stimulate). I generally like to hold my clit vibes in my hand and use my finger tips to press it against my clit and rub a bit. Most plastic vibes handle this very well, but as I said, some silicone vibes end up with the vibrations redirecting or backing off due to the pressure. Does Mimi have this problem, or is it possible to apply some pressure with her and still have the vibrations transmit to where I want them? Obviously, I'm going to feel the vibrations in my hand, and that's not really an issue, I'd just ALSO like to feel them in my clit, instead of just in my hand, or more in my hand than on my clit. Hope that makes sense.