Rabbit vs dildo: which would she like more and why?

Have you asked her what she'd like?

The first rule of polls is to include "other' as an option.

Second is - listen to Chilipepper - ask.

I will say though that my wife would not talk about it, so I just experimented. The obvious place to start is a great clit vibe - once she learned how easy it was to orgasm that way, she could stop worrying about all stars having to align to orgasm.

Once the basic idea of toys was accepted we moved on to rabbits and non-vibrating dildos - but almost always used them in conjunction with a clit vibe.

The concept - at least for my wife is that her orgasms are stronger when she has 'something to hold onto'. This is the reason for the great success of rabbit vibes.

However rabbit vibes are a compromise - there are way better dildos out there and better clit vibes. By using her favorite in each category - we can get her to have blended orgasms - this both vaginal and clitoral.

Last point - variety. The same thing rarely works well 2x in a row - so we mix it up quite a bit.

I'm a clit vibe kinda girl. But ask her what she thinks she would like.

depends on what its for i guess if its for both of you or just for solo play... if its for you to use on her i would go with the Dichroic G-spot because its something that is not over the rainbow and you can play with temps if its for solo play then the Wild orgasm pierced lover... but that is just my opinion you should just ask her

Ask your girlfriend. Only she can tell you the answer to that question. If you're trying to buy a gift to surprise her, go with a dildo. Rabbits are not one-size-fits-all, and it might not work for her. A dildo is more likely to be ok.

You'd really have to ask. If it's her first toy, I would recommend a simple vibe of either plastic or silicone. I would get her a rabbit.

Is this her first toy? As others ahead of me have suggested a clit vibe is a great place to start. I will go a little further and suggest Mimi. You asked the difference between dildos and vibes. A dildo only moves when you move it, while a vibrator has a motor in it that provides stimulation. I like both, but I like a vibrator a little more. I used toys for a while (both vibes and dildos) before I was ready to try out a rabbit. I don't think rabbits would be the best place to start unless she said that's what appeals to her most.

The love diamond looks nice to me.

Communicate, communicate, communicate. But in the event that she is not forthcoming or you really just want to surprise her, I think it's hard to go wrong with a high quality clit vibe, provided you splurge a little. MiMi is a great choice for this, in my opinion, and cheaper than some of the options you have up there. Leaf Life, or We Vibe Salsa or Tango are also well-rated options. A rabbit is a hard gift to buy because it's a very tricky thing to find one that fits someone's individual anatomy. I would not recommend the glass pick you have up there unless you KNOW she likes firm materials like glass, metal or wood in her toys since some women realllllly don't. I'm not partial to the particular soft dildo you have up there but it's not a horrible choice. If you don't have any idea what she'd like, I'd recommend a clit vibe as your first choice. A silicone dildo, preferably a Tantus or Vixskin one might be a good second choice. Other food for thought, a good clit vibe can be used when you're having sex together as well as for her solo sessions. I love my MiMi balanced between me and my girlfriend during strap-on sex, which would work just as well during straight sex.

Also, both of the rabbits you post are not the greatest material. Not horrible at a 7 on the safety scale, you can do worse than TPR, but a silicone one would be much better for not much more money. But I still say clit vibe is the way to go.