From the toys I bought before I joined up with EF I went a-searching who liked the same items, then kindof stalked those people a while, reading their reviews on toys, and some of their posts and even their blogs. Simply because I wanted to know if they liked practically all the toys I liked for the same reasons I liked them.
Then I decided to place my first order using the reviews of those I decided knew my body without even meeting me. And yes, it took some research and a lot of reading, but as someone said before me, it was better to do this research and not waste the money.
Turns out all my research has paid off. I have only bought one toy out of the many I have purchased that was just too small for me. And I bought it because it was pretty not because of the reviews so it was my own fault!!!!