A strange question perhaps, but here goes. I bought my girlfriend her first sex toy a few months ago and since then our sex life has improved dramatically. She used to take a very long time to achieve orgasm, if at all, whereas now multiples are given, and we have time to concentrate on other fun stuff. We've since tried several different toys and she's looking to have her first G-spot orgasm. There have been some unintended consequences though. Whereas she used to love me eating her out (it was the only way she could achieve orgasm), she has become so used to toys that when I go down there these days she quickly starts to get bored after a couple of minutes (her eyes start to wander, etc etc). Same thing with my fingers. I certainly don't feel threatened by her toys and have no desire at all to turn back the clock, but I can't deny I miss the pleasure of long, slow, cunninglus sessions, etc, which she no longer has the patience for. Have others had similar experiences? Are you still able to achieve orgasms without your toys? Would it be a good idea to have a toy free session every now and then? And how do I bring this up with my girlfriend without appearing threatened? (that is not the case -- I am just keen to strike a better balance between pleasuring her and maintaining the intimacy in bed).