Sexy Spades Butt Plug by Doc Johnson

I have the large, and it stays in very well. The neck is long, and there's plenty of difference between the body diameter and the neck diameter.

If you're going to be sitting for a long time the base might get a bit uncomfortable, though, especially if you fail to "spread your cheeks" before sitting down.

Thank you so much for your response. That was the basically the answer/opinion I was hoping for!

thanks for the positive feedback!
I think they are pretty, too!

Any pain is a signal to stop and relax, and if you can't relax enough to have no pain you should stop.

It takes a while, but I can get the Sexy Spades Large and the A-Bomb in without pain. There's definitely a sensation of tightness and stretching, but no pain. Pain is bad.

It is mainly just the sphincter, that feels the pain, when putting the large one in.
Once it is in the rectum it feels wonderful, but I think it harder for me because I have a small hemroid on the inner sphincter.
Hell I can insert the njoy 2.0 plug in the shower without any lube, without experiencing any pain at all (and even without warming up) but it appears that anything over 2 inches starts to cause some unpleasant feelings in the sphincter.

There is no way I would get the A-bomb in though, because it is silicone. Any large objects that go into my ass must be smooth and frictionless or it wont work, haha.

One hundred percent agreed and repeated because its so damned important!

"Any pain is a signal to stop and relax, and if you can't relax enough to have no pain you should stop."

So very important. The point of any of this is to enjoy yourself, not to go through some sort of ordeal!

While I don't have a sexy spades, I have had a few glass plugs in my time. One thing I do notice with glass and water based lube is that with extended wear, it almost feels like the plug gets "stuck". I would liken this "stuck" to the way a magnet on the fridge that is left for a long time takes a bit more effort to remove than one you've just placed.

I like using greasy lubes - shea or cocoa butter based, but silicone will also be a better choice then water based.

Just some food for thought!

And yes I do enjoy the feeling of larger plugs, but only after getting the largest part past the inner sphincter.

The outer sphincter can open up just fine (Especially since it is controlled by the SNS - Somatic Nervous System, which is under voluntary control), but its the inner one (controlled by the ANS - Autonomic Nervous System, for involuntary control) that hurts with anything greater than 2 inches (even after lots of warmup)
After it is past the inner sphincter into the rectum, it feels great, and removal isn't a problem as long as the neck doesn't get too narrow (so the sphincter remains stretched)


Anyway; I have also noticed that sticking occurrence went doing extended wear with plugs. (Such as keeping one in when sleeping) Most likely it is from the rectum absorbing it. The rectum and column does slowly generate a little bit of a lube itself, but it isn't really enough to keep things slippery enough to have the plug turn freely after not touching it a while

I am thinking of getting this one. Thanks for letting us know.