Boy Meets Girl kit has gotten some awesome reviews and seems like a great basic, basic package for someone just getting started.. but if this is a present for yourself kinda thing, I'd definitely go for the mood passionate :] It's got all your bases covered, looks sexy as fuck, and, well, frankly, what more could you ask for?
Ok, so since these are all SO different, what exactly do you want? As far as rabbits go the Mood Passionate is AWESOME. I have four rabbit vibes and I liked this one 2nd best (I am a sucker for my Bella).
Pocket rockets are iffy for me. Not sure how I feel about them because they doo exactly what a vibrator (regular) does, but they aren't a versatile.
Onye is a power house bullet. If you like power, she's got it to give to you. If you're not so into power, this won't be the greatest choice.
I would look around and get a feel for what you like. Take into consideration size, color, noise and vibration levels. You can really narrow your search with these factors.
For a first timer, I'd say go with something more basic with no clit attachments. Those are pretty anatomy dependent, and if you don't have any idea what will work for you, I'd suggest staying away from those until you know a bit more about what you like.
You might want to figure out (if you don't already know) what your clit and g-spot like before going for a rabbit. You'll also want to make sure the measurements match up with your body before buying one. I'd go for a g-spot vib and/or a clit vib before getting anything else.