I have the venus butterfly! Totally hated it! I'm 93 lbs. and the stupid straps cut the circulation off my legs! 93 POUNDS! Surely my legs aren't too big? The thing HAD to have been made for a child. Also, with the 2nd use the butterfly's wings tore apart! The snaps are so tough and they snap so tightly that you can't undo them more than once without ripping the straps. I hated this thing and I'm a huge strap on clit vibe lover! It caused my entire lady parts to feel tingly and numb and the butterfly is awkward, it won't lay flat. The bottom not matter what you adjust, it always flips straight up in the air. SOOO MANY disappointments with this one I could write a book! I eventually found my favorite strap on clit vibe which ended up being the sting ray... I think jenna's devillish fantasies? Anyways, he's a trooper! I've had him for a while and never disappoints. As soon as he wears out I'm buying another. It's wings are perfect. You can position them to snuggle between the labia minora, majora or both at the same time for direct stim on all the parts! It's just an awesome strap on vibe!