What would you do if your spouse/significant other discovered your toy(s)?

Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question is THIS:

How you feel if your guy/girl found your toys?
(or in MY case "box O' toys! )

Thank you
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Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by RedGlitter
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... more
my hubby has open access to all my toys.. while I am sure there are a few that he still doesn't know about- that is because my collection is HUGE though
01/16/2013
Contributor: Rory Rory
My husband not only has access to them he buys them for me!!
01/16/2013
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
He knows and loves it!
01/16/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
No need to hide my toys, he knows all about them.
01/16/2013
Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
Heheh, you have some great guys! My fiance actually bought me my first THREE toys! Oh, he created a monster!
Due to some things going on recently, we haven't been able to play around much, but I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO IT!
I can't wait to show him some of my stuff!
01/16/2013
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
I'd definitely tell my partners in the future- I'm not ashamed to be sexually liberated haha.
01/16/2013
Contributor: G&L G&L
There are toys actually sitting on our bathroom counter.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Anne Anne
my boyfriend knows and supports me collecting them
01/16/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
we use our toys together, and purchase them together as well.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
My boyfriend knows and has seen/handled a few of them. I also have my glass rose and riding crop on display in my room, so I'm really not bothering to hide anything. Although he hasn't found my Executive dildo yet, but that's only because I haven't put it anywhere accessible, even for myself.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I don't have a lover, but if I did, they'd know all about my toys
01/16/2013
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
he knows
01/16/2013
Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
We pick new toys out together. Both of us have been pretty open to toys.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I'm not currently dating anyone, but if someone is close enough to me to be sleeping with me, they are close enough to know I have sex toys
01/16/2013
Contributor: featherhead featherhead
We talk about what toys we like/want to have before we buy them.
01/16/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
We use most of my toys together, he helps me pick out new ones and suggests ones he'd like to see me use.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by RedGlitter
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... more
They already know about all of my toys so its no secret
01/16/2013
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
My boyfriend knows about all of my toys.
01/16/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I could care less if he sees them all, my partner actually likes the fact that I use toys. He enjoys me bringing them along when I go see him or when he comes to see me I pull them out. He loves using them on me
01/16/2013
Contributor: Ayumi Ayumi
We use them together. My partner had not even heard of sex toys discussed until he started dating me. He seemed reluctant about it at first, but I encouraged him to get in on the play and he has been excited ever since. He gets as hyped as I do when I pick out a new toy or receive a new assignment. He has recently been giving me more and more feedback too.
01/17/2013
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Play with them with him
01/17/2013
Contributor: souviet souviet
Quote:
Originally posted by RedGlitter
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... more
Pfh. We use them together!
01/17/2013
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Yeah, he has access to all of my toys and may use them on me to his heart's content.
01/17/2013
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
No secrets here either. The only secret I keep is if I get a new piece of lingerie and if he tells me he wants it to be a surprise.

Toys are an important part of our sex life, I wouldn't want any of them to be a secret from him! He's quite egalitarian in his views, and feels all women should have a nice toy collection.
01/17/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
I proudly show them off every time a new box arrives nd demonstrate how they work! The only ones I keep secret are gifts for him like a Christmas. Can't think of one toy I'd hide from him.
01/17/2013
Contributor: petlove0311 petlove0311
he uses all my toys on me, so he knows
01/17/2013
Contributor: butts butts
Personally I don't think it's a good idea to marry someone who doesn't know EVERYTHING about you already : / Hiding things, even somewhat "silly" things like toys can be a big deal. My partner has seen every single toy, he usually sees them as soon as I tear the box open!
01/17/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
Oh, my partner knows about all of them already (we both get too excited over new toys to keep them a secret for long even if we wanted to)
01/17/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I have absolutely no reason to hide them from him.
01/17/2013