What would you do if your spouse/significant other discovered your toy(s)?

P'Gell P'Gell
My Man and I play with my toys together. I don't think he's seen all of them, but only because when I was very active in reviewing, I was getting so many toys, even I could barely keep track of them. Some were used a few times and forgotten. I have two locking toy boxes filled with toys, a huge underbed drawer, and two Sugar Saks and a couple of Eden bags in My Man's underwear drawer that we choose from regularly.
01/19/2013
Vanille Vanille
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Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
She's seen mine. There's no reason to hide 'em.
01/19/2013
darkr darkr
i'd get over it and then we could use them together
01/19/2013
KayYJelly KayYJelly
My boyfriend and I order from here together all the time ! He doesn't like the toys being used on him but is more than happy to use them on me, and we love getting couples toys to try.

Talk to your fiance about it If you're nervous you can bring it up lightly, mention it a couple times and see if he says anything. And who knows, you might find out you love using them together.
01/20/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
She knows everything we have.
01/20/2013
DawnStar DawnStar
My girl knows, and I don't need hide them. Practically, we both have toys. Its thanks to her, I got into this website :]
01/20/2013
ashboo32 ashboo32
I've never kept my toys a secret from my partner
01/20/2013
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
they know, way better that way
01/20/2013
Real or memorex Real or memorex
I don't have a partner right now, but I doubt anyone would make it to my bedroom without finding out about the toys.
01/20/2013
karenm karenm
We only use a few of them together but he doesn't mind how many I have so it doesn't really embarrass me.
02/13/2013
Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
I actually do have a bunch out as decor

For the most part those are the glass ones that don't really look like toys to someone who didn't know, but either way I don't hide them. Even the ones that are put away, are in clear plastic drawers.

I might have some that he hasn't seen, not because I hide them, but I have so many that he doesn't really care to examine each one until I take one out to use.
02/13/2013
Hoshigetsu Hoshigetsu
I wouldn't want my significant other to find my toys because I would be afraid he thinks I am replacing him.
02/13/2013
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
My partner knows about all the stuff I get.
02/13/2013
Herzer Herzer
Quote:
Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
All of mine have been purchased with my wife in mind.
02/13/2013
Ouroborean Ouroborean
We bought most of them together, as is!
02/13/2013
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I don't hide them but I don't keep them out either.
02/13/2013
Rainbows Rainbows
She's seen (and used) most of them already and knows I like to buy them, so it definitely wouldn't be a big deal. I don't really have any that I feel the need to hide from her. She's free to look at them and use them as she pleases.
02/13/2013
JennSenn JennSenn
I don't have anyone right now, but if I did and it got sexual they would know about them. I love my toys! I would hope they would too!
02/13/2013
Bubba29 Bubba29
Quote:
Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
if you are engaged with this person, it is way past time to share your toys with him. i wonder what else you may be hiding from the person who are to devote your life with and sleep in the same bed with for the rest of your life.
02/13/2013
Melan!e Melan!e
My partner knows about all our toys. We actually really enjoy opening our EF packages together. I don't have any need to hide anything from him. And I prefer it that way..
03/13/2013
twelve13 twelve13
He knows. Partly because I'm messy and leave them out. Mainly because we use them together often.
03/14/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We both are "sex toy junkies"...thats one of the reasons we work so well together.
03/14/2013
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
My hubby knows about them, and I've usually told him what I'm getting before the order even arrives. They're not at all hidden, and we've played with many of them together.
03/14/2013
edeneve edeneve
I'd love to introduce their pleasure to him.
03/14/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
If my guys "discovered" my toys I would look at them like they were finally totally insane because my toys are EVERYWHERE in the bedroom and all over my desk.
I seriously have very little shame when it comes to sex and sexual paraphenalia.
03/14/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by indiglo
No secrets here either. The only secret I keep is if I get a new piece of lingerie and if he tells me he wants it to be a surprise.

Toys are an important part of our sex life, I wouldn't want any of them to be a secret from him! ... More
He sounds like a keeper! My guys figure as long as I'm happy then they are happy. They have a shared joke, when one of them gets miffed with me they tell me to 'go fuck myself' and expect that this is exactly what I will do!
03/14/2013
seaofneptune seaofneptune
He knows and he has no problem with them whatsoever.
03/14/2013
Hazeleyes2012 Hazeleyes2012
It's just me for now so no big deal...
03/14/2013
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
He sounds like a keeper! My guys figure as long as I'm happy then they are happy. They have a shared joke, when one of them gets miffed with me they tell me to 'go fuck myself' and expect that this is exactly what I will do!
You know, that's probably why my husband doesn't say that to me when he's angry. I don't think he'd be surprised if I went off and did just that!
03/14/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
My husband barely has to look for them. If he were to lift his head, while lying down in bed, he could see my Ryder plug and Leo on the drying rack. I keep a lot of my toys in the same places, from when I originally showed him my toy storage. All he has to do, is show a little interest and he'd find everything. He doesn't really care for toys, so he doesn't go for anything but the washcloth drawer in my nightstand.
04/05/2013
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