Well of course it depends on personal preferences. Were you looking for one or just posting? If you aren't sure which you prefer, I'd suggest purchasing something a cheaper vibe with good reviews and then a cheaper dildo with good reviews then by doing this you'll get a decent idea of what you prefer and can then start experimenting with other thing such as texture, glass, wood, etc. I'd suggest starting out with a good bullet vibe, like the crystal intensity vibes. As for dildos I don't know what to recommend. I only use glass dildos. Just read reviews and experiment!