When using a vibrator for partner play, do you like when your partner has control over the controls?

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When using a vibrator for partner play, do you like when your partner has control over the controls?

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Contributor: Chefbriapink Chefbriapink
Just an interesting question...
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07/18/2012
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Contributor: brevado brevado
We don't have a set way of doing things, it's whatever the moment calls for.
07/18/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I'll let me wife take the controls when we're just getting started and vice versa. If she's ready to get off, she usually likes to take control back again.
07/18/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Chefbriapink
Just an interesting question...
Sometimes, yes!
07/18/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
It would be fun, but my husband doesn't really bother to do that.
07/18/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Most of the time my husband runs the controls, likes to get me to the edge and leave me hanging.
07/18/2012
Contributor: krist338 krist338
Sometimes, yes!
07/18/2012
Contributor: Moniqua Moniqua
Sometimes.
07/18/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Chefbriapink
Just an interesting question...
If he has a toy in me, he ALWAYS has control of it. If I have a toy in him...well, then I am in the "drivers seat".
07/18/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
Generally its more fun to hand over the controls and just lay back, maybe with a guiding hand every once in a while. Other times its more fun to tease and not let him touch
07/18/2012
Contributor: Danneh Danneh
It's nice to just hand over the controls.
07/19/2012
Contributor: skyler1 skyler1
sometimes
07/19/2012
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
He usually has control in the beginning, but if he's entering me himself, I have control 9 times out of 10. I don't have a big preference though - I love it all:-D
07/23/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Chefbriapink
Just an interesting question...
I like how it FEELS better when I have control(because I know what I want)

But I get turned on more by the thought of him doing it, so I enjoy it just is much. He just needs practice to “get me there”. But we have the rest of our lives! So it isn’t a problem
07/23/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I won't get off unless I'm in control of the speeds, because only I know when I need more power... and I only have a limited amount of time before vibrations make me go numb.
07/24/2012
Contributor: Itsnotabanana Itsnotabanana
Definitely yes!
07/24/2012
Contributor: YouAreMyFetish YouAreMyFetish
Most of the time!
07/24/2012
Contributor: Itsnotabanana Itsnotabanana
Definitely!
07/25/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
It all depends on what's going on. I like when he has control but I'm more aware of what works for me.
07/25/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Occasionally he'll take over control of the vibrator, but usually he leaves it to me because I can feel what spots are most effective at the time.
07/25/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Chefbriapink
Just an interesting question...
Sometimes
07/25/2012
Contributor: bh253 bh253
Quote:
Originally posted by Ilovelingerie
I like how it FEELS better when I have control(because I know what I want)

But I get turned on more by the thought of him doing it, so I enjoy it just is much. He just needs practice to “get me there”. But we have the rest of our lives! So it ... more
This is how I feel!
07/25/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
sometimes
07/27/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
Sometimes.
10/16/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Yes, it makes it more interesting for me.
10/16/2012
Contributor: Andrey2052 Andrey2052
Sometimes
10/16/2012
Contributor: Wonderstruck Wonderstruck
Sometimes
10/16/2012
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by Chefbriapink
Just an interesting question...
i havent done much of this with my partner but i would like it!
10/16/2012
Contributor: Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Sometimes.
10/17/2012
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
yes
10/17/2012