It was one of the contributing factors of my divorce - my ex-husband's was so low, it was buried at midnight with a stake in the heart. The marriage was never consummated, and he never tried to work on it ... except blame me for getting worked up about a "genital sneeze" and calling my healthy libido "freakish". I'm afraid I wouldn't know what advice I can offer for others, except make sure the drives match up or can be worked with before it gets to be long-term frustration.