How is the passing of years actually effecting your performance in the bedroom?
HONEST...do you think as time goes on you are getting to be a BETTER lover (experience) or Lazier Lover (routine) or Worse Love (Fatigue..etc).
11/13/2011
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Better, I think.
11/13/2011
I think it depends on the person and the relationship. Some people will allow themselves to get lazy and will stop trying/get complacent. Some will be happy to use their experience to keep having hot exciting sex and will be confident enough to want to try new things and work at it.
And depending on physical health, that can affect it a lot in terms of fatigue and stuff too. I know at a certain point my bf got so busy with his last year of college and multiple jobs that he truly didn't have the luxury of being able to keep up with his fitness or his diet. He was so busy he was lucky if he got 2-3 hours of sleep a night. It really fucked with his health so he was always tired and achy and getting sick. Our sex then was still good, and a lot more adventurous than some people's, at least, but it was definitely a lot tamer than it would have been otherwise. We're usually the sort that fucks in every direction and upside down. It's better now though.
And depending on physical health, that can affect it a lot in terms of fatigue and stuff too. I know at a certain point my bf got so busy with his last year of college and multiple jobs that he truly didn't have the luxury of being able to keep up with his fitness or his diet. He was so busy he was lucky if he got 2-3 hours of sleep a night. It really fucked with his health so he was always tired and achy and getting sick. Our sex then was still good, and a lot more adventurous than some people's, at least, but it was definitely a lot tamer than it would have been otherwise. We're usually the sort that fucks in every direction and upside down. It's better now though.
11/13/2011
I think a little of both. The more experience I get and the more things we do, the better I get in that regard. However, I have very low energy levels that are getting worse each year, so I can't have sex for the marathon time periods I used to. I guess 10 hour sex doesn't always equal good sex, but it was nice to know it was an option. Overall, I think I've trended towards better and not worse. I just make sure we make good use of my limited time resources.
11/13/2011
Definitely better! I'm a fast learned, so I think it can only get better from here. Besides, eventually you learn low-fatigue, effective activities, right?
11/13/2011
I've always been a very attentive lover - but knowledge has made me better and age has made me more clever. As capacity decreases - you better be clever or you're going to be obsolete in a hurry!
11/14/2011
A combination of better and lazier. I can accomplish more in a shorter time, which is great considering how tired we are weeknights.
11/16/2011
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Better, over time.
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Bignuf
How is the passing of years actually effecting your performance in the bedroom?
11/17/2011
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12/08/2011
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