is it okay for an 18 year old girl to date a 32 year old guy?

Lisa72 Lisa72
it really matters more than their ages, their maturity level..
02/06/2012
Andrey2052 Andrey2052
Hmmm. This fine, I think.
02/22/2012
John E W John E W
I don't think the age matters. As long as the person is of legal age and that each other makes each other happy
02/22/2012
Castielskitten Castielskitten
there's nothing wrong with a 18 year old going out with a 32 year old man. hell, i was 19 years old MARRIED to a 38 year old man! and we're still going strong 2 years later and we will go strong YEARS down the road.
age doesn't matter.
love is genderless, it's ageless.
02/22/2012
Lano4ka Lano4ka
Age aint nothing but a number, that should say it all
02/24/2012
quinceykay quinceykay
She's a legal adult and old enough to make her own decisions, so yes it's okay.
02/27/2012
fredacarl fredacarl
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Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
it's fine with me
03/02/2012
fredacarl fredacarl
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Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
it's fine with me
03/02/2012
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
Why wouldn't it be okay?
03/03/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
If they treat each other well, then it's okay in my opinion.
03/03/2012
All His All His
When I was 18 I actually did date a 32 year old. We were friends and enjoyed each others company and not just the sexual kind. However we both agreed to apli amicabley as I was headed in a different direction than he was. The possibility for successful relationships are there no matter the age difference, age is just a number. What it really depends on is the individuals personalities and how they mesh as 2 humans.
03/03/2012
Apirka Apirka
While they always say that age is always a number, when it comes to dating someone who is still a teenager, that just freaks me out.
03/23/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
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Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
You shouldn't date any man that is "a dick" to you.... and that is a pretty big age gap. I personally wouldn't recommend it.
03/24/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
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Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
Yes but at 18 I wasn't interested in someone that much older than me.
03/25/2012
gorgeous gorgeous
I'm currently 19 and am dating a 32 year old. We have been talking for almost a year. So as long as the two are comfortable with each other the age is just random numbers. They don't matter.
04/09/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
Well, it's legal.
04/09/2012
Chami Chami
I dated a man that was about the same age gap at 18 and i'm now almost 21 and we are together. I love him and wouldn't have it any other way. Him being a dick to you isn't nice or ok ,but that is between you and him not their relationship. Is it possible its not just his fault? Could it be something you did to cause him to not like you? Is it possible you might be jealous? There are many different factors in this ,but as for the age difference i think as long as the people are happy together there is nothing wrong with it.
04/23/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I have known a girl who has dated and MARRIED someone WAY older then her like she was 18 and he was 53.
While age is just a number sometimes I think that is EXTREME but to each their own
05/18/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
i find it disgusting and the girls are less than brilliant for thinking they actually care for them but...
05/18/2012
jmex83 jmex83
Quote:
Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
long asyou both are of age, no biggie!
05/18/2012
CherryGryffon CherryGryffon
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Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
I'm 21, and my boyfriend is 38. In August, I will be 22 and in November he will be 39.

My two sisters are 13 and 16.5;
His two children are 13 and 14.5.

Yet, for all his family's worries [And that of my own father, though he was being protective if me leaving the nest so to speak], we get along smashingly. We have from day one. It's probably our maturity and the fact that in all honesty I'm an 80 year old in a 20 something's body; And he's a 20 something in an almost 40 year old's body [kidding mostly xD]; But still.

Age is nothing. For hundreds of years, 30+ year olds were married to 13 year olds and it was normal. Because for that time, a 13 year old girl was raised to know her duties. With the freedom we have today, most don't KNOW what they want; Male and Female alike. For me, I do. I'm a caretaker. It's my instincts to be a mother, a spouse, a homekeeper. My spouse is a provider type. It's his instincts to protect and provide.

So, in our case, 17 years isn't a huge gap at all.

Honestly, we don't even notice it until something comes up like:
In 1992 I was 2 and learning to read.

In 1992 he was graduating high school and going into the Air Force. XD

I guess it depends on who they are?
05/21/2012
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by CherryGryffon
I'm 21, and my boyfriend is 38. In August, I will be 22 and in November he will be 39.

My two sisters are 13 and 16.5;
His two children are 13 and 14.5.

Yet, for all his family's worries [And that of my own father, though he ... More
Right? In 1983 he was graduating high school, I was learning how to say the alphabet and small words.
05/21/2012
twoods89 twoods89
I think it's fine I've dated a 34yo and I'm 22
05/23/2012
Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
it can depend. if she hasn't ever had a serious relationship before it is inappropriate and creepy.
05/23/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Definitely unusual, but whatever. Assuming both sides were on equal maturity level, can't see why not.
05/24/2012
Peggi Peggi
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Originally posted by TumorCrunch
my best friend.....ugh...i don't think i'd mind quite as much as i do if he wasn't a dick to me...but still what do you think?
A friend of mine who was 19 dated someone who was in his late 50's and they're getting married and have been together a few years, they're having a kid together, and I've never seen this girl happier EVER.

So the REAL question is...is he a dick to your FRIEND? Because as long as you aren't the one who has to see him every day, it shouldn't really be a problem. Just be a dick right back. But as long as he treats your friend right, age shouldn't matter. I'd date someone more than twice my age if they were a good person to me and we got along.
05/24/2012
Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
The only thing that troubles me about your friend and this guy is the fact that he is a dick to you. Talk to your friend about it.

I've had things like this wreck friendships for me and it was devastating. I hated my best friends new guy, he was always a jerk to me and making jokes at my expense. Three years later they're totally over and I can't be friends with someone who let her guy disrespect me like that.
05/26/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
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Originally posted by Illusional
Yeah.
I've dated guys much much older. It varies on the people.
Don't assume he's a creep and she's a dumb slut or anything.
Love can be found, whenever, however.
I agree!
05/26/2012
meezerosity meezerosity
As long as she is a legally consenting adult I have no problem with the age difference. If you are having personal problems with your friend though I think you should bring that up with them.
05/26/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by SerenityRed
I'm not going to say it's never going to work but an 18 year old who still doesn't know what she wants out of life shouldn't really be dating a 32 year old. Or older.
They lack all common reference points in their "growing up". How can there be much in the way of enjoyment in each other...coming from completely different generations? Plus, 18...sorry folks, is still a CHILD to me. I don't care what an 18 year old is LEGALLY....in terms of knowing their own mind, feelings, gelling plans and having full ideas about life...younger then 25 or so is still a growing child. Thus it may be legal for the 32 year old, but it is an adult taking advantage of a child in MY mind.
05/27/2012
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