Lesbian Bed Death

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I may not have the correct forum for this, but I am trying. I am in a long term lesbian relationship. My fiance and I have been together for three years. We are planning our ceremony soon.

Recently, I feel as if we have become complacent in our sex life, which has meant that I have not been ordering things or donning my lingerie as much.

I have been trying to do some research and I have found answers from all perspectives.

Has anyone else experienced this? If so, what are you doing to combat this?
04/15/2013
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Originally posted by jessi2
I may not have the correct forum for this, but I am trying. I am in a long term lesbian relationship. My fiance and I have been together for three years. We are planning our ceremony soon.

Recently, I feel as if we have become complacent in ... More
There is a particular topic set up for gay threads, but I know how confusing this site can be at first!

A big reason for sexual heat is what's known as a "barrier." This is when there are restrictions and hurdles that must be overcome in order to have sex, whether those barriers are social, mental, emotional, or physical. When a couple gets very comfortable with each other, most of those barriers fall away. So, to reintroduce them, we have to get creative! You can try roleplaying--there are many options for barrier-simulating scenarios. You can try a new type of toy, especially those that are considered "taboo." You can try new locations, new outfits, new techniques, etc.; just about anything that will add a fresh element and keep things from getting too routine!
05/05/2013
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