MEN ONLY (AGE 37 AND OLDER)

D&&JForever D&&JForever
At age 37 how is ur sex drive??
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Still feel like I'm 20!
39  (72%)
Barely there.
2  (4%)
Thank god for Viagra!
5  (9%)
OTHER: Please explain.
8  (15%)
Total votes: 54
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01/10/2011
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Vaccinium Vaccinium
My sex drive is a bit less than it was when I was twenty, but it would pretty much have to be for me to function. That said, it wasn't that long ago when I said I'd never need Viagra. Now, I can definitely see it in my future-- but not yet.
01/10/2011
hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by D&&JForever
At age 37 how is ur sex drive??
I'am 64 and have no real problems. My wife 0f 40 years says I'am as good as ever, maybe I'am just lucky or my wife just doesn't want to hurt my feelings.
01/10/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
The only difference between now and then is I only crave it from one woman, my wife. I still want it just as much, if not more, and I perform better as well.
01/10/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Well I'm 37 + 20 - so no I don't feel like I'm 20. In some ways I'm better, in others I'm not. At 20 I could on forever and recover quickly - now it takes a lot more effort.

But at 20 I didn't understand all the nuances of sex and all the wonderful way to bring my gal to orgasm. It has gone from me getting off - to me getting her off, then taking my turn.

For me although there were some subtle changes at 37, I can't way that I was expecting the level of performance decline that actually occurred in the subsequent 20 years. Thank Glaxo pharmaceuticals for Cialis - the stuff is a wonder drug!
01/10/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I am answering for my husband here. He would say he doesn't feel like he is 20 again, but the sex is better now at 39, than it was when he was 20. We are having way more sex now, than we did 18 years ago. We are both more experienced, more open to new ideas and we don't care so much about what society may or may not approve of anymore.

When he was 20, it was all about knockin' booties, so to speak, now it is more about spending hours upon hours (nearly every time) exploring each other, and working toward more of a whole body experience, rather than just a genital one.

I do not notice any decline in his performance as he has aged. If anything he wants it more often at 39.
01/10/2011
indiglo indiglo
Answering for my man here: he says his drive is the same as it was at 20, but the body is not the same, however the flip side is that he has more experience and skill. He also said if he had to trade - being able to stay hard as long as he did at 20 or the experience/knowledge he has now, he wouldn't trade it for anything. (He's 46, and I totally agree with him! )
01/12/2011
dv8 dv8
I can still have sex several times a day but when I was 20, I could keep going for six hours with only short breaks to recover between sessions.
01/13/2011
Fun Lover Fun Lover
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Well I'm 37 + 20 - so no I don't feel like I'm 20. In some ways I'm better, in others I'm not. At 20 I could on forever and recover quickly - now it takes a lot more effort.

But at 20 I didn't understand all the nuances ... More
Ditto

Yes it is a wonder drug!
01/18/2011
married with children married with children
it is about the same as when i was 18. only difference is i like to take more time in bed now. not that i would race when i was younger.
01/19/2011
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Answering for my man here too--- I wasn't with Alan in his 20s, but he's 50+ years old now and has more drive than he did in his early 30s. It takes him longer to recover between rounds, but he lasts longer so it all balances out.
01/19/2011
Checkmate Checkmate
At 61 my sex drive remains about the same. Unfortunatly my body does not respond the same as it did 40 years ago. Due to combination of health conditions and medications I must take, I depend of ED drugs, mainly Viagra or Cialis. Actually it works out quite well. With the use of these drugs my body reacts like a 20 year old, but I enjoy sex much more now because of the 40+ years I have spent with my wife. Sex is more relaxed, we both know what works for us and what doesn't.

I could be the poster boy for ED drugs. For the past 5 years I have been called on for clinical trials of all current drugs as well as some which have not yet reached the market.
01/20/2011
leanright69 leanright69
Just 10 months away from being 50. There has been no change in ability to get erect or stay erect. May not shoot as far as as much volume. But the firmness is always ready. Do not go soft untill the fun has ended. Sex in the shower will leave me softening quickly but I think it is due to the hot water and the level of intensity (workout) while standing and f-cking.

Life is good
02/16/2011
Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I am just at the age threshold. It is not where it was 15 years ago, but it is still pretty good. Back them I wanted it every day, now I am happy with 2 or 3 times a week, most of the time and go as long as a week or every great once in a while longer without. 15 years ago, that meant a lot of private time.
03/15/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by leanright69
Just 10 months away from being 50. There has been no change in ability to get erect or stay erect. May not shoot as far as as much volume. But the firmness is always ready. Do not go soft untill the fun has ended. Sex in the shower will leave me ... More
Didn't start having problems until about 54-55 - enjoy - but get some Cialis for just in case!
04/15/2011
MontereyJak MontereyJak
Quote:
Originally posted by D&&JForever
At age 37 how is ur sex drive??
My sex drive is still high but at times my energy level is lacking. I've just recently starting using Viagra. I only use it when we are swinging with our friends, which helps with some anxiety. Normally I don't use it. A friend of mine used Viagra in order to get his body back on track. So rock on.
04/19/2011
Solar Ray Solar Ray
As strong as ever and more kinks and perversions now.
04/19/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by D&&JForever
At age 37 how is ur sex drive??
Lower than it was but at almost 50 it's better than it ever was. We are both more open, experimental an sharing than ever.
06/05/2011
big b big b
50 with diabetes need the help
06/06/2011
oldhippy oldhippy
I'm 66 now. The desire is actaully better than at 18. The strength is close, but Viagra still helps a bit. Part of the issue is medical, but mostly because of issues that my wife has had over the last few years. We are both working on the issues, and hopefully will get more if it resolved, and reduce the need for the Viagra, or at least make its need less.
Also, with the introduction of toys, we are finding some new and interesting side lines that are adding some interesting twists that were not there when we were 18.
10/01/2011
ScotchIrish ScotchIrish
Quote:
Originally posted by D&&JForever
At age 37 how is ur sex drive??
Well, I was given up on years ago. I am 48. The libido is there. The want and desire. The pills give me side effects. So, thank god my tongue will never go limp. I can have intercourse sometimes for forty or fifty minutes, sometimes only five. It is best if a partner would let me get off orally first and then I can attend to her for an hour or so with 2 or 3 orgasms. By then, I am ready again and we can enjoy the happy ending together. Oh, yes a quick y is nice. But, I want to spend sometime with, on, tasting and pleasing her. I have years to make up for; but I savor every moment with a woman.
10/03/2011
AlbertC AlbertC
Doesn't look like I'll ever out grow it completely. I'm nearly 65 and desire is still strong though it's diminished the past 4 or 5 years. Have not needed Viagra and only recently had occasional trouble maintaining an erection. The plumbing still works but, while my ears are still growing, everything else is shrinking. My wife very much still turns me on but Porn is a complete bore now. Do reminisce about earlier uninhibited years when I didn't feel like a ridiculous dirty old man.
10/03/2011
biggieaddict biggieaddict
Still a horny bastard. I can take "no" for an answer without sulking now (much) and can survive a day or two without an orgasm. I probably can't go for five or six hours like i could at nineteen (we were both missing skin and suffered mightily for that bit of fun) but an hour or two is not a problem. That is more due to getting out of shape, that should change before too long. I can still come at least twice if not three times if I pace carefully and don't stop after I come (and she holds still ) Usually go for an hour-ish.
11/11/2011
Bobber Bobber
37? Age is irrelevant as long as you are with someone who loves you and you are open- minded.
I am 61 years young, still have the drive, I can make love with my wife for a hour, give her 4 or 5 orgasms and then get mine off, lovely.
05/13/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
mid 40s and am still horny most of the time...maybe a bit less often. Everything functions well. I miss shooting 2-3 feet though.
05/13/2013
magicmaxx Mr.Mrs magicmaxx Mr.Mrs
at 56 sex is better today then I was in my 20 - 30
05/13/2013
spiced spiced
I'm in my 40s, and I still have an orgasm or two every day. I'm not quite as horny as when I was 20, but I know SO many more ways to give pleasure now, both to myself and to a partner, that I wouldn't go back if you paid me (unless I could keep the knowledge).

Like Trysexual said, I do miss shooting across the room — but no biggie.
05/13/2013
EastCoast36 EastCoast36
In my late 30's and I have noticed a bit of a change in the last two years. I feel like it has more to do with my expectations. When we got married in our mid-twenties I was not completely sure what it was I enjoyed. Over the years, I have introduced things for us to try and shared my desire. In the end though, it seems my wife's generally vanilla tastes and frequency has won out. We certainly still have sex, it's just that it would be a good bit wilder and more often if it was my call. I still don't have a problem getting an erection, but my orgasms are probably less mind blowing and I definitely don't "shoot" like I did in my 20's.
05/13/2013
Total posts: 28
Unique posters: 27