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allybee allybee
My boyfriend never seems to really be into sex no matter how much I try to turn him on. He'll come but he seems so tense and serious the whole time. What should I do?
10/16/2011
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SexyStuff SexyStuff
Quote:
Originally posted by allybee
My boyfriend never seems to really be into sex no matter how much I try to turn him on. He'll come but he seems so tense and serious the whole time. What should I do?
Break up with him? That is a pretty big issue.
10/17/2011
sktb0007 sktb0007
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Originally posted by SexyStuff
Break up with him? That is a pretty big issue.
I wouldn't suggest breaking up at all. I think communication is important. You should try talking with him about it and see if there is something you two can do that he would enjoy.
10/17/2011
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by allybee
My boyfriend never seems to really be into sex no matter how much I try to turn him on. He'll come but he seems so tense and serious the whole time. What should I do?
You'd need to ask him that. I don't know what would work for him, but he probably would.
10/17/2011
starklover starklover
you need to talk to him
10/17/2011
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
He could have some personal issues he hasn't shared or find hard sharing. For awhile i had sexual issues with my g/f she almost seemed the same was as your describing. She isn't the greatest at communication, but eventually we talks things through and i found out it was minor things we could easily work through. I wish you goodluck
10/28/2011
sktb0007 sktb0007
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Originally posted by Cookie Monster Mike
He could have some personal issues he hasn't shared or find hard sharing. For awhile i had sexual issues with my g/f she almost seemed the same was as your describing. She isn't the greatest at communication, but eventually we talks things ... More
Great advice. I think communication is really important and you may find out that it is possibly just an insecurity that can be worked on.
10/28/2011
NicNat NicNat
i agree with the people above. Really try talking to him, and if he dosen't seem to want to talk try to not have sex for awhile and try again afer a few days/weeks and see if its any better.
10/28/2011
MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
You should talk to him about it and see if there's something happening that you don't know about. If you're very serious about him, you can also pursue a sexual councilor, too!
11/13/2011
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