Women: Does sex get better or worse with age?

LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
Today video from Nina is talking about how a woman's sex life changes over time. The cliche is that women hit their sexual peak in their late 30's and mid 40's ...but is that true for you?
11/09/2010
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Today video from Nina is talking about how a woman's sex life changes over time. The cliche is that women hit their sexual peak in their late 30's and mid 40's ...but is that true for you?
I am almost 62, and I can say that my sex drive is just as high, and probably higher than when I was in my 30's and 40's. Part of it is that now I am married to a fantastic, very sexy and very sexual younger man. I have found that the more sex I have now, the more I want, and that it really keeps the girl parts working well. I hear about 'loss of lubrication' in older women, and I surely do not have that problem. I think it might be a case of 'use the parts to keep them young.'
11/09/2010
Odette67 Odette67
You bet it does, I am 67yrs young and it is a thousand times better now, it get's beter, and better.
11/18/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I agree it does get better - but it doesn't necessarily have to be that way.

My idea:

There's nothing more inherently sexy about my wife now that 20 years ago - it's 98% mental. She has fewer preconceived notions about what's 'acceptable' - what she likes and doesn't. If she had been able to discard this baggage sooner, she'd have had thousands more orgasms and a ton of fun that she rejected at a younger age.

Obviously it's better late than never, but if the younger gals out there make it a point to learn about their sexual anatomy - a, c, g-spots etc - there can be a lifetime of pleasure out of the early investment in learning about yourself - and dare I say about your partner and his prostate - et. al.
11/18/2010
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I would say I am definitely climbing the peak in my late 30's I hope I am not too close to the summit though. I believe it is partly due to my husband and the fact we have been together for almost 2 decades and I completely trust him. But mostly, I am no longer buying into the societal ideals of normalcy and I am learning to just go with what feels good to me and speak my mind regardless of how crazy or out there it may be. I never would have guessed that would have been such a turn on for me or for my husband. Woohoo!
11/20/2010
Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
I would say that sex does get better with age. I am in my mid 30s and I know my drive is going way up. I am up for more new things than I was at age 18 or so. Most of my 60+ friends say that it just gets better and better because you learn more about your body and what you like as a person.
11/28/2010
MaMa Luv MaMa Luv
I think it gets better with age,...more experience
01/02/2011
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
this is really interesting..
01/03/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
I have to agree it's better now that I'm 38. No idea what it'll be like later in life but my sex drive has sky rocketed in my late 30's and I'm learning so much more about myself. I think it is because I have the time to do so without worrying about marriage, babies or bills. I'm at a comfortable place in life. I'd think it'll change with the demands of family and life but at this point I'm learning and exploring the perfection of my sexual experiences so I should think it can only get better as I age.
01/03/2011
indiglo indiglo
I am currently mid 30's and my sex life is (much) better than ever. I know myself more and am more comfortable in my own skin, have a wonderful man in my life (we talk about our sex life on a regular basis in very specific terms) and I only expect things to get better! I think the older you get the more comfortable you can get with yourself and your lover - and that means a better sex life.
01/03/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I's say better. Wisdom and knowledge come with age. At this point in my life I know what I like and how I like it. I would not, for all the world, want to be an sexually inexperienced teen again.
01/03/2011
Lucidity Lucidity
I hope it keeps getting better. Love having things to look forward to
01/03/2011
kittyelf1952 kittyelf1952
I'm 59 (today) and my husband's 56 - and our sex is astonishing. I had no Idea. In the almost two years we've been together, we've made love almost every day, and I've had multiple orgasms (sometimes 20 or 30 - I'm not kidding) every time. If I hadn't experienced it myself, I wouldn't believe it. so much love, joy and desire.
02/27/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I'm 18 and I don't think I'll ever have a sex drive as high as mine is now!!
03/06/2011
redsugar redsugar
i'm 33 and YES i think it has been getting better. except my bf can't really keep up with me :/ i think i've always had a high sex drive, but now my orgasms are more fulfilling than when i was younger.
03/31/2011
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