OK, I am a very nosy girl!! I am 40 and I feel like I haven't come close to my sexual peak yet. Why? The older I get the more comfortable and more adventurous I have become sexually. I am loving the freedom to experiment and find new things to improve my erotic and sexual experiences. My husband and I are in this together, maybe it makes a difference having a partner that is encouraging, but from my perspective I am not sure about there being a peak. Maybe just a learning curve and higher security with who you are and what you like. What do you think?
How old are you? Do you feel like you have hit your sexual peak? Why/why not?
09/28/2011
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Im 27 and married also. We also have been exploring and experimenting with different things.
Originally posted by
js250
OK, I am a very nosy girl!! I am 40 and I feel like I haven't come close to my sexual peak yet. Why? The older I get the more comfortable and more adventurous I have become sexually. I am loving the freedom to experiment and find new things to
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OK, I am a very nosy girl!! I am 40 and I feel like I haven't come close to my sexual peak yet. Why? The older I get the more comfortable and more adventurous I have become sexually. I am loving the freedom to experiment and find new things to improve my erotic and sexual experiences. My husband and I are in this together, maybe it makes a difference having a partner that is encouraging, but from my perspective I am not sure about there being a peak. Maybe just a learning curve and higher security with who you are and what you like. What do you think?
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The way I see it is, your sexuality is always changing. I used to hate larger toys a couple years ago, now I love the feeling of being full. The thicker the toy/cock the more turned on I get. So No I dont think there is ever a peak, as long as you are still sexually interested.
You do get more honest with yourself and others when you get older, so I guess thats why you seem so much more sexual as time passes.
09/28/2011
I am 50 and have gone past my peak. My downfall was because of medical conditions though
09/28/2011
I am 24 and I feel like I have the sex drive of a cadaver sometimes. Sexual peak? No.
09/29/2011
I'm 32 and I have been in my peak since hitting 30! It's awesome and I'm soaking it up as much as possible.
09/29/2011
I hit "a" peak when I was in my late 30s and early 40s and then it went downhill.
However, that was without toys.
Now I feel like I'm hitting a newer and higher peak.
I think that there are several things that can contribute to this. Health problems can cause one to drop down as can the quality of the relationship with your partner and of course boredom. I believe though that like many mountain ranges your life can be filled with peaks and valleys and then more peaks if you're willing to explore and keep on being active.
I'm 51 now.
However, that was without toys.
Now I feel like I'm hitting a newer and higher peak.
I think that there are several things that can contribute to this. Health problems can cause one to drop down as can the quality of the relationship with your partner and of course boredom. I believe though that like many mountain ranges your life can be filled with peaks and valleys and then more peaks if you're willing to explore and keep on being active.
I'm 51 now.
09/29/2011
I'm turning 30 in 24 days, and I don't think I've hit my peak yet. I can tell that I'm very frisky nowmore than I was in my 20's, but I don't kknow if becoming 30 is part of it or not. Or if I have more time to focus than worry about graduating college, finding a job, building a house, getting married, having kids. I have all that now it's time to focus on SEX and lots of it.
09/29/2011
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I agree! Good points, and that was kind of how it went with my husband and I, we found toys and have never looked back!
Originally posted by
Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
I hit "a" peak when I was in my late 30s and early 40s and then it went downhill.
However, that was without toys.
Now I feel like I'm hitting a newer and higher peak.
I think that there are several things that can ... more
However, that was without toys.
Now I feel like I'm hitting a newer and higher peak.
I think that there are several things that can ... more
I hit "a" peak when I was in my late 30s and early 40s and then it went downhill.
However, that was without toys.
Now I feel like I'm hitting a newer and higher peak.
I think that there are several things that can contribute to this. Health problems can cause one to drop down as can the quality of the relationship with your partner and of course boredom. I believe though that like many mountain ranges your life can be filled with peaks and valleys and then more peaks if you're willing to explore and keep on being active.
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However, that was without toys.
Now I feel like I'm hitting a newer and higher peak.
I think that there are several things that can contribute to this. Health problems can cause one to drop down as can the quality of the relationship with your partner and of course boredom. I believe though that like many mountain ranges your life can be filled with peaks and valleys and then more peaks if you're willing to explore and keep on being active.
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09/29/2011
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Happy early birthday! Good points!
Originally posted by
unfulfilled
I'm turning 30 in 24 days, and I don't think I've hit my peak yet. I can tell that I'm very frisky nowmore than I was in my 20's, but I don't kknow if becoming 30 is part of it or not. Or if I have more time to focus than
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I'm turning 30 in 24 days, and I don't think I've hit my peak yet. I can tell that I'm very frisky nowmore than I was in my 20's, but I don't kknow if becoming 30 is part of it or not. Or if I have more time to focus than worry about graduating college, finding a job, building a house, getting married, having kids. I have all that now it's time to focus on SEX and lots of it.
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09/29/2011
We are both turning 50 this year and since discovering toys 2 years ago we havent come close to our peak yet!
09/30/2011
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I am 48, slightly used after a 21 yr limited sex marriage. I have years left and plenty of love and lust. And, I am not in a rush. However It has been 4 long years. My tongue has never gone limp.
Originally posted by
js250
OK, I am a very nosy girl!! I am 40 and I feel like I haven't come close to my sexual peak yet. Why? The older I get the more comfortable and more adventurous I have become sexually. I am loving the freedom to experiment and find new things to
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more
OK, I am a very nosy girl!! I am 40 and I feel like I haven't come close to my sexual peak yet. Why? The older I get the more comfortable and more adventurous I have become sexually. I am loving the freedom to experiment and find new things to improve my erotic and sexual experiences. My husband and I are in this together, maybe it makes a difference having a partner that is encouraging, but from my perspective I am not sure about there being a peak. Maybe just a learning curve and higher security with who you are and what you like. What do you think?
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09/30/2011
I'm 25 and have only been having sex for a few months, so no peak yet! I started out with a strong libido and a lot of knowledge, so I've skipped the awkward fumbling about stage and have jumped right into the fray. My boyfriend has a decade of sexual experience behind him, and I keep surprising him, so I who knows how awesome things will be when I hit my peak.
10/01/2011
18, there's no way I've hit my sexual peak. I've still got a super long list of things I want to try, and my tastes are still evolving!
10/01/2011
25 and I know that technically I haven't (biologically speaking) but it seems to have died down A LOT over the past couple years.
10/01/2011
34, and my sex drive has not changed at all from when I was 18. still going strong.
10/01/2011
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