Drunk Sex?

SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
This question is for males/guys only, though partners may answer.

Technically, no drunk person can consent to sex, but lots of people have drunk sex. Have you had drunk sex? What do you think about this?

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I have had sex with a drunk partner while I was sober.
18
I have had sex with a drunk partner while I was drunk.
32
I have had sex with a sober partner while I was drunk.
24
Total votes: 74 (39 voters)
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04/08/2012
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PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
There wasn't an option for me. I've never had sex when either person was drunk
04/08/2012
Mwar Mwar
I've done most scenarios. I still prefer us both sober.
04/08/2012
hillys hillys
In college it happens a lot. Except there is sometimes well... wisky dick if the guy is too drunk. Girls can also have problems if they're too drunk
04/08/2012
catsin catsin
I think it depends on how well you know a person before the whole one person drunk the other sober routine occurs without qualm. It can be questionable if the relationship is fairly fresh--with good reason.
04/09/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
There wasn't an option for me. I've never had sex when either person was drunk
Sorry about that. I should have included that.
04/10/2012
Chirple Chirple
I don't think it's as clear-cut as "drunk people can't consent". Being drunk doesn't make you a child or a completely different person. Are you perhaps impaired if you drink enough ? Sure. But unless your drink was spiked or you were manipulated or coerced, you took a calculated risk and are responsible for your own freely-made choices.

If you killed someone while drunk - you're still responsible. Being drunk doesn't take away responsibility for your own actions.

There are certainly different levels of "drunk". You can be drunk and physically a little wobbly but have no mental impairment - thus being able to consent in the fullest sense of the word.

Drunk people still have the same right as anyone to say "no", and it should be respected just like anyone else. And, duh, no - you should never have sex with someone who is passed out or who is so drunk that they literally don't know what you're saying and can't respond one way or another (that would be a great time to get someone to the hospital, instead).

I've had sex while slightly drunk. We talked about it beforehand - and even before drinking. It wasn't that great, but o well.
04/11/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
This question is for males/guys only, though partners may answer.

Technically, no drunk person can consent to sex, but lots of people have drunk sex. Have you had drunk sex? What do you think about this?

Private voting.
I haven't done either
04/11/2012
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I've never had drunk sex but I probably would have tipsy sex but with someone else who was tipsy so both parties judgement on performance was equal.
04/13/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
My husband and I fall into none of those categories. We have never been drunk or had sex while we were drunk.
04/20/2012
Ciao. Ciao.
Alcohol makes consent a pretty messy question, and while I'm pretty sure that I've had sex in all of these scenarios involving drinking (though not really when I or my partner has been really drunk), it's always been with my current partner (who I've been with for a very long time) so there was not really a question of consent in that case.
04/20/2012
Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
with my girlfriend so its not RAPE
04/21/2012
ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
it can be fun as long as either is not crazy drunk, as for us we are engaged so don't really have to worry whether either person consents.
04/22/2012
Starkiller87 Starkiller87
all of the above. haha. But it was with someone who I had been previously involved with while both of us sober so it was beyond consensual.
04/22/2012
MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
I've been "dizzy" and having foreplay with a sober person but that's pretty much it.
05/10/2012
meezerosity meezerosity
I was tipsy and my SO at the time was sober, that's the only instance it has ever happened for me. Alcohol makes me more of a loud party type person prone to ranting and less sexual. If I'm drinking it is usually with a gathering of friends.
05/10/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
This question is for males/guys only, though partners may answer.

Technically, no drunk person can consent to sex, but lots of people have drunk sex. Have you had drunk sex? What do you think about this?

Private voting.
Neither of us have ever been drunk.
05/10/2012
Total posts: 17
Unique posters: 16