How to Ask Him to Shave?

sweetpea12 sweetpea12
My boyfriend won't manscape. He keeps promising me that he will, but never does. It's just an aesthetic thing that I prefer. But he really won't do it. What's a nice way that I can get him to shave??
03/07/2013
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*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Honestly its his body his choice but you can stop giving oral if that is the main act that you don't like doing because of hair. I haven't had an issue with being with someone who doesn't at least trim.
03/07/2013
MasqueVivi MasqueVivi
You can't really force a partner into a thing like that, but you should tell him to just try it once and if he still really dislikes it then you'll drop it (because what else can you do at that point anyway?) When he follows through, try to really reward him. I hope it works out for you.
03/07/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Maybe you need to find a boyfriend that is interested in pleasing you.

It doesn't make a guy a wimp to accommodate his partner. Sex is literally give-and-take but it sounds like your guy is more of a taker than giver.

Sorry if I have offended you - IMO you're too young to get tied up with someone who you are not compatible with. I didn't meet my wife until I was 33 - we married at 35. You have time to find the right person for you.
03/08/2013
eri86 eri86
Offer to give him a trim and then immediate follow up by giving him treat. Oral!
03/08/2013
MattBryant MattBryant
get a pair of clippers (like for hair on the head/beard) and do about half an inch guard on it (i use 1/4 myself).. clippers are WAY more uniform than scissors and doesn't leave the hair at an angle that pokes and itches!!
04/20/2013
Scythe Scythe
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Originally posted by sweetpea12
My boyfriend won't manscape. He keeps promising me that he will, but never does. It's just an aesthetic thing that I prefer. But he really won't do it. What's a nice way that I can get him to shave??
My ex put it to me like this when it comes to this topic: If you want me to go down on you,maintain that trimmed down there if not it isn't happening, some guys would get upset about this but it didn't really bother me.
06/11/2013
MrWill MrWill
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Originally posted by sweetpea12
My boyfriend won't manscape. He keeps promising me that he will, but never does. It's just an aesthetic thing that I prefer. But he really won't do it. What's a nice way that I can get him to shave??
Best answer ever: "Hey Babe, I'd love to suck your cock.. but I'm tired of getting your sack hair stuck in my teeth. Shave it, or buy a Fleshlight from Eden and use code X22 at checkout."

Seriously though: Just say something about it. If you are old enough to see his pubes you are old enough to have an upfront conversation about grooming.
06/11/2013
Asmoothguy2011 Asmoothguy2011
Suggest that you trim/shave each other. That's always a fun way of doing it.
08/19/2013
Cinnyree Cinnyree
Oh my!!! No one is shaving or trimming me.
I say sit down and have a real convo with him. Is the problem that he just keeps forgetting? Is he scared? Does he think it's not manly? Does your opinion seriously not matter to him?
Don't nag that doesn't help anyone. Either give him time, set him down, or figure out if you really want this relationship
08/19/2013
lana'sart lana'sart
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Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
Honestly its his body his choice but you can stop giving oral if that is the main act that you don't like doing because of hair. I haven't had an issue with being with someone who doesn't at least trim.
I agree
08/19/2013
Edeneve Edeneve
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Maybe you need to find a boyfriend that is interested in pleasing you.

It doesn't make a guy a wimp to accommodate his partner. Sex is literally give-and-take but it sounds like your guy is more of a taker than giver.

Sorry if I ... More
very good Gunsmoke!
08/20/2013
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