The best is when we masturbate together. I had always thought of masturbation as a secretive act, a substitute for "real" sex, and somewhat ashamed of doing it.
It was liberating when we masturbated together for the first time, and it has become part of our lovemaking repertoire. It is wonderful to share all of myself with the woman I love. We are unashamed, happy, playful, trusting and very open with each other.
Do I sound like an evangelist? I am!