Men Only: How many sexual partners have you had?

socceras socceras
I would like to know because recently I met a guy I liked and he told me that he has slept with about 50 women. I couldn't deal with this so I kinda called things off. I would like to hear from other men though how many partners they have had and their age. This guy was like 24 so I think that's really young to sleep with that many women. PRIVATE VOTING
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
1-4
38  (57%)
5-9
8  (12%)
10-14
7  (10%)
15-19
5  (7%)
20-24
2  (3%)
25-29
3  (4%)
30-34
1  (1%)
35-39
40-44
1  (1%)
45-50
1  (1%)
50+
1  (1%)
Total votes: 67
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12/17/2011
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Sublime Sublime
I've been with a good number of girls... I'm 25 and nowhere near 50 but they've slowly racked up.

I don't think it's fair to get hung up on how many people someone has slept with if you like them and are std free.
12/19/2011
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Not exactly anything to be proud of, but in my youth there were maybe about 4 or 5 during college and then while single and working I was in several other relationships of another 4 or 5. In my opinion, I look back and realize there was never the parental guideance to understand the emotional issues involved or the important reason to wait for that 'significant other' in order to cherish that true intimacy. I think it was a matter of respecting a moral code which I was not taught to honor. I have been faithful though since marriage.
12/19/2011
El-Jaro El-Jaro
When it comes to partner numbers, I find it about as useful as BMI when used as a scale of measure.

I'd like to have an experienced and educated partner who knows a couple tricks than someone who's been with a dozen people and didn't learn much. Quality over quantity.
12/20/2011
markwashere markwashere
I think lots of men will lie about how many girls they have slept with (at least in my experience)
12/21/2011
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
5 including my fiancee.. i am 26
12/21/2011
cmm cmm
My god I feel horrible. I got around in highschool.
01/03/2012
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
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Originally posted by cmm
My god I feel horrible. I got around in highschool.
lol some people do and some don't. I had plenty of opportunities to have sexual partners, even a few threesomes but it just didn't feel right. I have always only been able to have sex with someone I know very well and trust. Plus back in high school I really didn't want to get anyone pregnant!!

I only included in my vote partners I had intercourse with. Not including things like hand jobs, blow jobs etc.
01/03/2012
socceras socceras
Wow surprising numbers. I woulda thought a lot more.
02/14/2012
Phallos Phallos
Where's the "0" option?
02/15/2012
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Quote:
Originally posted by Phallos
Where's the "0" option?
Oh sorry I ate it!
02/15/2012
CindyH CindyH
the numbers suprized me
02/29/2012
robertk2380 robertk2380
Never did much dating in high school, so beyond one relationship during those years my only other partner has been the woman I was lucky enough to meet at the beginning of college and eventually marry. Looking back, I don't feel like I really missed much. We learned together and that was fantastic. Now I'm blessed with a woman who knows me and what turns me on more any other person in the world. The sex is amazing.
02/29/2012
freda freda
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
I would like to know because recently I met a guy I liked and he told me that he has slept with about 50 women. I couldn't deal with this so I kinda called things off. I would like to hear from other men though how many partners they have had ... More
1-4
03/01/2012
Trepier Trepier
Just one, my current girlfriend. I just wouldn't be able to commit to it without the aspect of a long term relationship.
03/10/2012
garylangworthy420 garylangworthy420
just one
03/15/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Quote:
Originally posted by markwashere
I think lots of men will lie about how many girls they have slept with (at least in my experience)
Do you think they round up or down?
04/10/2012
<3BF <3BF
'sexual partners' made me wonder if that only constitutes all out penis in vagina sex or if other sexual activities counted such as oral?
04/11/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Quote:
Originally posted by <3BF
'sexual partners' made me wonder if that only constitutes all out penis in vagina sex or if other sexual activities counted such as oral?
Usually, I'd say it accounts for penetration. But I've been known to account for other activities when giving people my number.
04/15/2012
Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
Just 1 ^_^
04/21/2012
socceras socceras
Quote:
Originally posted by Cookie Monster Mike
Oh sorry I ate it!
HAHAHAHA
04/23/2012
socceras socceras
I'm a girl and im at 7. that seems like a lot lookin at you all and im only 21
04/24/2012
oldman oldman
Quote:
Originally posted by markwashere
I think lots of men will lie about how many girls they have slept with (at least in my experience)
Do you think the men exagerate or minimize the # of partners? By partner do you include 1 night stands or just more prolonged relationships?
04/24/2012
chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
I would like to know because recently I met a guy I liked and he told me that he has slept with about 50 women. I couldn't deal with this so I kinda called things off. I would like to hear from other men though how many partners they have had ... More
i have had 5 im 24
05/01/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
My husband falls into the 1-4 category
05/01/2012
Ibegoodone Ibegoodone
Don't really want to post a number but I didn't get married until I was 45 and haven't been with another since I met her.
05/12/2012
michael scofield michael scofield
0 if you count masturbators i been around lol
05/19/2012
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
I would like to know because recently I met a guy I liked and he told me that he has slept with about 50 women. I couldn't deal with this so I kinda called things off. I would like to hear from other men though how many partners they have had ... More
I'm female and I've only been with 1 person and i'm married to him. i'm 25
05/19/2012
Beck Beck
I voted for my hubby. I asked him one day. It never mattered, but I was curious about what the number was. He is 42 and has been with 16 women and that includes just oral acts as well. He has been married twice and has had one other long term relationship. The rest were random hook ups. I don't think the number is important, it's whether or not they are clean of STD's.
05/24/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Not that many. The key is if they're still clean, and the timing. Some people spent their high school and early 20s years chasing tail, and a few years later they've matured and want to be in a stable relationship.
05/26/2012
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