I've tried hair removal on my legs and it was a disaster, no way I'd use it elsewhere. Or let my partner. However, I did find that Veet stuff worked wonders on my legs, but I would think it's unsafe to put near your genitals. And I don't think you could convince a boy to try it. My boy's response was 'isn't that girl stuff?'
Shaving is easier for me, although I've heard a lot of people gripe about razor-burn. I've been shaving twice a week since I was 13 years old, so maybe my body just stopped getting razor-burn or something. Who knows..
I always wanted to try waxing, but I'm terrified. Haha
My boy thinks waxing is the meanest thing on earth. I really can't get him to do anything but trim. He thinks shaving will eat his skin or something.