Weird thing my husband is doing in his sleep

jedent jedent
So my husband, who enjoys anal play on a semi regular basis, I'd say one out of every three times we fool around his ass is involved somehow, is jamming his fingers up his ass in his sleep. This has been going on for a few weeks now, but he was alerted to it when, you know, he'd smell his hands in the morning and be confused as to why they smelled like they'd been in his ass. He woke up one night still doing it, which is also how we know what's going on with him.

Aside from the obvious "increase your anal play" or whatever, does anyone have any idea why he would be doing this? Have you ever known anyone who has done this? Have YOU ever done this?
07/09/2009
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Gary Gary
Without being an expert on anything dream or sex related, I would say that he is probably thinking and dreaming about it in his sleep. You dream the most in your lightest cycles of sleep. So somehow his will, or desire, to do certain things is overriding the nighttime off switch.

As far as I know I have never done this particular action in my sleep, but I have woken up having full on sex with my wife before. I also have screaming night terrors, and can have a conversation or even talk on the phone while I am asleep and have absolutely no recollection of it.

So my conclusion would be that your husband is awesome, and has magical sleep powers!
07/10/2009
nurdgurlz nurdgurlz
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Originally posted by jedent
So my husband, who enjoys anal play on a semi regular basis, I'd say one out of every three times we fool around his ass is involved somehow, is jamming his fingers up his ass in his sleep. This has been going on for a few weeks now, but he was ... More
sometimes I wake up touching my vagina, and a few times I have even been in the midst of orgasm when I wake. At the time I was very aroused and dreaming of my lover doing things to me. I even woke up humping air once when I dreamed my lover was pounding into me. I would imagine that your husband is having very erotic dreams of you playing with his ass, and maybe you should consider helping him out the next time he is having this dream. I think it is delightful and fun.
07/25/2009
sweet sally sweet sally
never encountered anal play, but my bf quite often jacks off in his sleep. never to full orgasm but he makes it hard. when i catch him, i just give him a "helping hang" or mouth.
06/08/2010
fungo fungo
I've had similar experiences as those above, waking up performing (though never anal). I suppose it's a natural extension of something he obviously enjoys and is very comfortable with. All in all it doesn't seem too detrimental, if even unusual.
06/08/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
This is interesting. Unsanitary, but interesting. Is it still going on? I notice it's been almost a year.

By the way: Waking up while having sex rocks.
06/08/2010
Alicia Alicia
We have never had any kind of anal play while sleeping, although we're total anal newbs so that's maybe why. But we have woken up while touching each other or woken up right about to have sex.
06/08/2010
Anally Fixated Anally Fixated
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Originally posted by jedent
So my husband, who enjoys anal play on a semi regular basis, I'd say one out of every three times we fool around his ass is involved somehow, is jamming his fingers up his ass in his sleep. This has been going on for a few weeks now, but he was ... More
I'm really sorry for this comment I'm about to make, buuut, this is actually a pretty comical occurrence. I understand it's very awkward especially for you because you actually see him doing it unconsciously, so I'm sorry I find this kind of funny. On a serious note, I have never heard of anyone doing this before. It's could just be that in his subconscious, he enjoys the feeling to such a high degree, that his brain causes him to stimulate this pleasure even in his sleep.
09/16/2010
sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
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Originally posted by Anally Fixated
I'm really sorry for this comment I'm about to make, buuut, this is actually a pretty comical occurrence. I understand it's very awkward especially for you because you actually see him doing it unconsciously, so I'm sorry I find this ... More
It does kinda make me smile & giggle to think about it. I would have NO idea why he would be doing it other than he was dreaming about it, but I just have to smile and giggle and I just imagine MY husband doing that and it would be interesting to see. Haha. No offenses, it's just a interesting silly thing I'm sure you experienced.
09/16/2010
aimtoplease aimtoplease
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Originally posted by Gary
Without being an expert on anything dream or sex related, I would say that he is probably thinking and dreaming about it in his sleep. You dream the most in your lightest cycles of sleep. So somehow his will, or desire, to do certain things is ... More
"Magical sleep powers"....I love it! I've never experienced that but I know I've woken up masturbating more times than I can count
09/16/2011
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