I put "other". I am head over heels in love with the guy that I'm with, and the sex isn't at all bad. But sometimes he falls into ruts where he doesn't want to for a few days and that kind of hurts me. I'm the kind of person who associates sex with love and emotion. For me, it isn't just this thing to do to get off, it's a way of interacting with someone that I have an emotional and intellectual connection with, and bringing that connection to a physical level. So when he doesn't want it, it makes me feel not only like he's not attracted to me, but that he doesn't want to let me express my love for him. Also, sometimes he's a little hesitant to try new things. But we're working on that.