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As a disabled man i have insecurity's and trust issues do to my past. I therefore am very shy and almost down right scared of women. How ever i am very much in love with women and the thought of being with a women makes me overwhelmingly happy inside. I also have never cum with a women i do not believe it has something to do with my disabillity i relive it has something to do with i have been mistreated in the past. I do not how to deal with positive female attention because of my insecurity and my possible lack of knowledge in the bed room. I have even tried looking for women on cregslist but there ether bots and or working girls and i am not quite despite enough for that lmao. It also does not help i want my partner to genuinely like me and care enough about me to give me a gift i have always wanted no i am not a virgin but i have never came ether that's one part of the gift, the other part is i wanna cuddle with her and be with her in a peaceful way. Sorry i am such a deep person sometimes i go on about shit lmao
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I suffer from feelings of insecurity and inadequacy. I've talked to my partner, and he has admitted that I'm not fulfilling in bed, which only made it worst. Now I have issues where it's hard to engage him in sex and I'm always
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I suffer from feelings of insecurity and inadequacy. I've talked to my partner, and he has admitted that I'm not fulfilling in bed, which only made it worst. Now I have issues where it's hard to engage him in sex and I'm always worried that I'm not actually pleasuring him, which makes it hard to just enjoy our "fun time". He knows this, and I guess he is trying to help, but it's one of those things of the damage is done.
Has anyone else ever just lost all confidence in bed like this? less
Has anyone else ever just lost all confidence in bed like this? less